The Connection Podcast – Lauren Dry
The Connection Podcast - Lauren Dry
Podcast Description
Welcome to the Connection Podcast! My name is Lauren Dry - come and join me on a journey alongside Modern Couples, to uncover how the Secrets of the Nervous System and Unconscious Mind support us to Rewire and Reconnect at Home. We're going to get deep on all things Marriage, Family Connections, my own path through Rising Into Regulation, and a bit of Neuroscience and Soul thrown into the mix as well. Let's Laugh, Live and Rise Together as we travel through the Transformation of Having It All at Home!
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The podcast covers a range of topics including marriage dynamics, nervous system regulation, childhood trauma, and gut health. Episodes delve into subjects like the impact of stress on relationships, the science of nervous system healing, and emotional communication strategies, with examples such as discussions on gut health's influence on movement and intimacy challenges arising from past betrayals.

Welcome to the Connection Podcast! My name is Lauren Dry – come and join me on a journey alongside Modern Couples, to uncover how the Secrets of the Nervous System and Unconscious Mind support us to Rewire and Reconnect at Home. We’re going to get deep on all things Marriage, Family Connections, my own path through Rising Into Regulation, and a bit of Neuroscience and Soul thrown into the mix as well. Let’s Laugh, Live and Rise Together as we travel through the Transformation of Having It All at Home!
You know that feeling when you still love them, but your body is like… nope.
You’re not trying to be dramatic, you’re not trying to nitpick, but suddenly everything feels irritating, flat, or strangely off.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I getting the ick?” or “Where did the romance go?”, this episode is a deep exhale. It’s not about blaming your partner or making you feel broken. It’s about understanding what your nervous system is doing underneath it all.
In this episode of The Connection Podcast, Lauren Dry, Master Marriage Coach and founder of Rise into Regulation™, unpacks how resentment, nervous system overload, and feeling emotionally unsafe can quietly switch off desire and connection in modern relationships.
This is a conversation about what “the ick” can actually be pointing to, and how to start rebuilding safety and closeness without forcing romance or pretending things are fine.
You’ll hear us explore:
- Why “the ick” can be a nervous system response, not a sign your relationship is doomed
- How resentment builds when you’re carrying too much, or not saying what’s true
- What happens when your body stops feeling safe, even if your mind still wants connection
- The difference between a relationship problem and a dysregulation problem
- Small, realistic ways to bring safety, softness, and romance back online over time
Resources & Links:
🌐 Learn more about Rise into Regulation™, the skillset for connection, communication, and Nervous System safety in modern marriage
📲 Follow Lauren on Instagram @lauren_dry
If something in this episode resonated, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or connect with me on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.
Big love,
Lauren x

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