FREAK’N SEE Podcast
FREAK’N SEE Podcast
Podcast Description
Welcome to FREAK’N SEE, hosted by Mr. Dominus, the unapologetic space where Black queer men talk openly about kink, fetishes, and non-monogamous living. This weekly podcast brings together voices from across our community with real people, scandalous stories, insights, and expertise in navigating the Black queer kink and fetish world. Whether you’re curious, kinky, poly, or somewhere in between, we’re here to start the conversation, break the silence, and normalize the parts of ourselves we’re often told to hide. From BDSM to open relationships, leather to love, we hold nothing back. This is your permission to tune into our FREAK’N SEE.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast covers a range of themes centered around the Black queer kink community, including topics such as BDSM, open relationships, and personal stories of navigating identity within kink spaces. Episodes like 'Pup Play Through a Black Lens' explore unique experiences of individuals within the community, while introductory episodes like the one featuring Black poly couple Ferg & Tokyo delve into the intricacies of poly relationships and the sex, kinks, and emotional dynamics involved.

Welcome to FREAK’N SEE, hosted by Mr. Dominus, the unapologetic space where Black queer men talk openly about kink, fetishes, and non-monogamous living. This weekly podcast brings together voices from across our community with real people, scandalous stories, insights, and expertise in navigating the Black queer kink and fetish world. Whether you’re curious, kinky, poly, or somewhere in between, we’re here to start the conversation, break the silence, and normalize the parts of ourselves we’re often told to hide. From BDSM to open relationships, leather to love, we hold nothing back. This is your permission to tune into our FREAK’N SEE.
This week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose.
Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack:
🔥 Dating with intentionality
🔥 Sexual compatibility vs emotional compatibility
🔥 Why POC communities struggle with shame around kink
🔥 Respectability politics & hiding desires
🔥 Entry-level kinks for beginners
🔥 Navigating relationships with different kink levels
🔥 Communication, boundaries & consent
🔥 Why people ignore sexual incompatibility
🔥 Learning to fully own your desires without shame
This conversation gets honest, vulnerable, educational, and necessary — especially for people trying to navigate the kink dating scene while still protecting their emotional health and authenticity.
Whether you’re curious, experienced, questioning, or simply tired of surface-level dating conversations, this episode is for you.
🎙️ Watch now, subscribe, and join the conversation.
Welcome to FREAK’N SEE — where sexuality, kink, and intentional connection meet without shame.
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