Ask The Betrayed
Ask The Betrayed
Podcast Description
The Ask The Betrayed podcast provides tangible hope to those in crisis and a safe place for Betrayed Partners to find healing and insight into the behaviors of the Unfaithful (who can also to learn how to help their Betrayed partners heal). We hope to fulfill a great need for betrayed partners to hear professionals who have personally experienced the deep traumatic pain of betrayal: Ask the Betrayed not only provides expert insight, it is hosted by two Betrayed Partners in long-term recovery from Betrayal Trauma, Sharon and Rae, who both specialize in helping Betrayed Partners, the Unfaithful and Couples recover from betrayal:
- Sharon is a Licensed Therapist and Certified Professional Coach who is certified in betrayal trauma and, along with her husband, James Annear (@AskTheUnfaithful)
- Rae is a Master Certified Life, Relationship and Divorce coach
Ask the Betrayed airs every other week, alternating with it's companion channel, Ask the Unfaithful (@asktheunfaithful)
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
This podcast focuses on betrayal trauma recovery, emotional healing, and relationship dynamics, with episodes that tackle themes such as post-traumatic growth, grief after infidelity, and establishing emotional safety. Examples include discussions on moving from survival to empowerment and navigating ambiguous grief after a partner's betrayal.

The Ask The Betrayed podcast provides tangible hope to those in crisis and a safe place for Betrayed Partners to find healing and insight into the behaviors of the Unfaithful (who can also to learn how to help their Betrayed partners heal). We hope to fulfill a great need for betrayed partners to hear professionals who have personally experienced the deep traumatic pain of betrayal: Ask the Betrayed not only provides expert insight, it is hosted by two Betrayed Partners in long-term recovery from Betrayal Trauma, Sharon and Rae, who both specialize in helping Betrayed Partners, the Unfaithful and Couples recover from betrayal:
– Sharon is a Licensed Therapist and Certified Professional Coach who is certified in betrayal trauma and, along with her husband, James Annear (@AskTheUnfaithful)
– Rae is a Master Certified Life, Relationship and Divorce coach
Ask the Betrayed airs every other week, alternating with it’s companion channel, Ask the Unfaithful (@asktheunfaithful)
Have you ever wished your unfaithful partner could truly understand what betrayal has done to you?
In this powerful episode of Ask The Betrayed, Sharon and Rae explore one of the most transformative tools in betrayal trauma recovery: the Impact Statement.
An Impact Statement gives betrayed partners the opportunity to put words to the emotional, relational, sexual, spiritual, financial, vocational, and personal injuries caused by betrayal. It is a chance to tell the truth about what happened—not only to the relationship, but to you.
In this episode, we discuss: ✔ What an Impact Statement is and why it matters ✔ How impact statements fit into the betrayal recovery process ✔ Different ways to write and structure an impact letter ✔ Why this process can be empowering and healing ✔ The role of professional support during impact statement work ✔ How impact statements help unfaithful partners understand the true impact of betrayal ✔ Real examples of powerful impact statement language ✔ Why being witnessed matters in healing from betrayal trauma
Whether your relationship survives or not, your story deserves to be heard. One of the most painful realities of betrayal is carrying the impact alone. An Impact Statement creates the opportunity to reclaim your voice, organize your experience, and speak the truth about what happened to you.
Because healing begins when your reality is no longer minimized, dismissed, or hidden.
If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share — it helps others find support and hope after betrayal.
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📬 If you have questions you’d like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: [email protected]
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🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: [email protected] ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: [email protected] )
Our Website: https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com
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