Don't Be a Jerk
Don't Be a Jerk
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👋 Hey there, Healey Cypher here. My brother once said all CEOs are inherently bad, and I get it. Headlines glamorize ruthless success, but there’s another story: leaders who win because they’re good people.
“Don’t Be a Jerk” explores real-world examples and tactical insights proving kindness and integrity aren’t just nice; they’re strategic advantages.
Each episode reveals actionable lessons to build success without compromising values. Let’s rewrite the narrative of leadership, one story at a time.
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The podcast focuses on themes of leadership ethics, business authenticity, and emotional intelligence, with episodes covering topics such as the strategic advantages of vulnerability in venture capital and the impact of genuine communication in business transactions.

👋 Hey there, Healey Cypher here. My brother once said all CEOs are inherently bad, and I get it. Headlines glamorize ruthless success, but there’s another story: leaders who win because they’re good people.
“Don’t Be a Jerk” explores real-world examples and tactical insights proving kindness and integrity aren’t just nice; they’re strategic advantages.
Each episode reveals actionable lessons to build success without compromising values. Let’s rewrite the narrative of leadership, one story at a time.
Charlie Munger said ”show me the incentive and I'll show you the outcome.” Dr. Amy Gershkoff Bolles has spent an entire career proving it from the inside. She built the media operation for Obama's 2012 campaign, served as a C-level executive at companies including Zynga, Ancestry, and Levi Strauss & Co., and sits on public and private company boards. The throughline: most bad behavior at work isn't malice. It's good people responding rationally to a broken system.
In this conversation with Healey Cypher, Amy turns that lens on the everyday problems leaders misdiagnose: the sales team fighting the support team, the ”cost center” incentivized to hang up on customers, the marketing budget spread too thin to work. She shares the exact fixes that sent revenue ”through the roof,” why she asks every new hire what they want in twelve months (not five years), and why a Princeton Ph.D's real value was learning how to learn, a skill she argues matters more than ever now that AI can write the code while you sleep.
She also makes the case for the generalist, the discipline of saying ”I will find out,” the campaign trick of going broke on purpose, and why, after 20 years in big tech, she's betting on Main Street.
In this episode:
– The one change that erased the war between a sales team and its support staff
– Why customer-support incentives quietly destroy customer loyalty, and how to balance them
– The marketing budget mistake (”love all your children equally”) that starves your best products
– The question Amy asks every new hire to unlock ”exponential” performance
– Why AI can hand you the answer but never the fortitude to act on it
– The hidden penalty generalists pay, and why the boardroom finally rewards it
– How to sound confident when you don't know the answer
– The Obama-campaign discipline of being ”bankrupt by election day”
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