Quillette managing editor Iona Italia sits down with author, television personality, and bi advice columnist Lewis Oakley. They discuss the growing number of people coming out as bi, misconceptions about bi men from straight and gay communities, the biases against bi men in dating, why labels matter, the unique perspective bi people have as a result of how they experience gender dynamics, Lewis’s role as a sort of ambassador for bi men, the problems with demonizing masculinity, shifting gender roles and double standards, why young men need an alternative to the manosphere, and more.

Read Lewis Oakley’s QM article: “Can Stay-at-Home Dads Have it All?”

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