Agehood
Agehood
Podcast Description
Agehood is the podcast that finally says what we're all thinking but rarely saying out loud. Hosted by Melissa Reader, CEO of Violet, we have the conversations that matter most: watching our parents age, being everyone's go-to person, the mess of love and duty, what it really takes to care for those we love, and yes, death, dying, and loss.
You'll hear Australia's most trusted voices, from beloved broadcasters to respected experts, vulnerably sharing their own stories alongside practical guidance that actually helps. This isn't about having all the answers—it's about asking the right questions and knowing you're not alone.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
Agehood centers on themes such as caregiving, aging parents, and the experiences of the sandwich generation. Episodes delve into pressing issues like the care cliff as discussed by demographer Bernard Salt, as well as personal stories from guests like Sarah MacDonald, who discusses navigating the challenges of caring for aging relatives while raising children. The show emphasizes vulnerability and the need for open conversations about death and loss.
Agehood is the podcast that finally says what we’re all thinking but rarely saying out loud. Hosted by Melissa Reader, CEO of Violet, we have the conversations that matter most: watching our parents age, being everyone’s go-to person, the mess of love and duty, what it really takes to care for those we love, and yes, death, dying, and loss.
You’ll hear Australia’s most trusted voices, from beloved broadcasters to respected experts, vulnerably sharing their own stories alongside practical guidance that actually helps. This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions and knowing you’re not alone.
Most of us know we should talk about the end of life – but almost none of us know where to start.
In this episode, Melissa Reader is joined by Dr Ira Byock, one of the world’s leading voices in palliative care, to explore how we can live and love more fully by facing what we often avoid. A physician, author, and global advocate, Ira has spent decades reminding us that illness and dying are not just medical experiences, they’re deeply personal ones.
Together, they unpack the four simple phrases that can transform our relationships – “Please forgive me. I forgive you. Thank you. I love you.” – and discuss why planning for life’s later chapters should come from trust and love, not fear.
This conversation also marks the launch of Violet’s Care Compass, a simple values-based tool designed to help families start these conversations early – around the kitchen table, not in the hospital corridor. Because it’s never too early to talk about the end.
FIND OUT MORE
If you’re caring for aging parents, navigating your own next chapter, or just trying to keep all the balls in the air – you’re not alone. At Violet, we offer free tools and support to help families navigate the last stage of life with care and confidence. Visit violet.org.au to start the conversation.
CREDITS
Host: Melissa Reader
Guest: Dr Ira Byock
Executive & Audio Producer: Madeline Joannou – Mylk Media
Find out more about Violet at violet.org.au
For more information about Dr Byock’s books, visit his website here.
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