What if the life you’re chasing… isn't even yours?In this episode of The Soft Edit, we explore unlearning. The quiet uncomfortable, necessary process of questioning everything you’ve been taught about who you should be. From societal expectations to internalized patterns, so much of our identity is built on noise. And at some point, you have to stop and ask: According to who?This solo reflection dives into the hard side of unlearning, why choosing yourself can feel uncomfortable (and even wrong) and how to start listening to your own voice againUnlearning is not a one-time decision. It’s a repeated, intentional act of choosing yourself over and over again. And while it may cost you comfort, familiarity, and even certain relationships… it gives you something far more valuable: A life that actually feels like yours.If you’ve ever felt lost, behind, or disconnected from your own life, this episode is for you.