The Lafaya Way Podcast
The Lafaya Way Podcast
Podcast Description
A mix of poker wisdom and life mastery
Life isn’t about the hand you’re dealt - it’s about how you play it.
Welcome to The Lafaya Way: Mastering the Mental Game of Life, the podcast for women who refuse to fold in the face of adversity. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges, professional obstacles, or high-stakes decisions, this show is your reminder that you have the power to play to win.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
Each episode explores themes such as resilience, personal growth, and navigating adversity, with specific topics including overcoming anxiety, caregiving with purpose, and balancing ambition and motherhood. Example episodes feature guests sharing transformative experiences like Sabrina Schottenhamel's journey from introversion to public speaking, Betsy Wurzel's fight against Alzheimer's complacency through caregiving advocacy, and Jill Brown's health transformation after facing severe life challenges.

A mix of poker wisdom and life mastery
Life isn’t about the hand you’re dealt – it’s about how you play it.
Welcome to The Lafaya Way: Mastering the Mental Game of Life, the podcast for women who refuse to fold in the face of adversity. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges, professional obstacles, or high-stakes decisions, this show is your reminder that you have the power to play to win.
Some stories sound too unbelievable to be real.
Imagine this: you’re a respected immigration lawyer… living the life you worked incredibly hard to build. Then one day, at LAX airport, a dozen armed federal agents arrest you for a crime you didn’t commit.
That’s exactly what happened to Kelly Giles.
What followed wasn’t just a legal battle—it was a journey through prison, trauma, identity, and ultimately deep healing. Through poetry, storytelling, and raw honesty, Kelly began unraveling a lifetime of buried pain—from adoption and abandonment to betrayal and injustice.
And somewhere along the way, something powerful happened.
The very experiences that could have broken him became the foundation for helping others heal.
In this conversation, we explore how Kelly learned to play the hand life dealt him—even when the cards looked impossible. From federal prison to poetry workshops, foster youth advocacy, and a memoir now being adapted for film, Kelly’s story reminds us that even our darkest chapters can lead to unexpected purpose.
Key Takeaways Pain can become purpose.
Kelly began writing poetry simply to survive emotionally. What started as “therapy on paper” eventually became published work that now helps others process their own trauma.
The stories we tell ourselves shape our lives.
For years, Kelly operated from unconscious survival identities formed in childhood. Through reflection and writing, he began to understand—and rewrite—those narratives.
Sometimes the breaking point becomes the turning point.
His arrest and prison sentence forced Kelly to confront buried trauma and reassess everything he believed about himself and the world.
Healing rarely happens alone.
Throughout his journey, Kelly encountered “angels”—people who supported him when he couldn’t support himself. From a lawyer who believed in his innocence to a therapist who walked with him for years.
Your story may heal people you’ll never meet.
Kelly once received a message from a doctor in Brazil who reads his poetry to patients facing serious illness. Proof that sharing your truth can ripple far beyond your expectations.
Favourite Quote“Until you learn how to love and forgive yourself, you’re already in hell.”
Find Out More & Connect with Kelly GilesKelly Giles is a former U.S. immigration attorney turned author, poet, and advocate. After a life-altering wrongful conviction connected to a colleague’s fraud case, Kelly spent 10 months in federal prison—an experience that became the heart of his powerful memoir Killing Justice.
Through writing, poetry, and storytelling, Kelly explores themes of trauma, identity, justice, and healing. Today he volunteers with foster youth, participates in poetry and hip-hop workshops supporting creative expression, and continues to use his voice to raise awareness about mental health and the criminal justice system.
His memoir Killing Justice is the first in a planned trilogy and is currently being adapted for film.
Website
http://www.kellygiles.com
Author & Poetry Website
http://www.kgstoryteller.com/
Social Media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyab303/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077323377913
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-giles-0260269/
X: https://x.com/kellyab33
Books
Killing Justice
https://books2read.com/killingjustice
Poetry Collection
https://www.lulu.com/spotlight/kellyab3/
If you’re interested in learning more about playing the hand you’re dealt in this mental game of life, you’ll love my book Poker: A Woman’s Game.
To download your free chapter today, visit:
https://lafayawaypoker.com

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