People are forming romantic relationships with AI. A licensedtherapist is watching it happen in real sessions, with real clients.

In this episode, Sarah sits down with Catia Hernandez Holm,licensed marriage and family therapist, conscious parenting coach, TEDx speaker, and founder of Bright Light Marriage and Family Therapy in Wimberley, Texas. Catia works with individuals, couples, and families every week, and AIis showing up in the room in ways that are layered, nuanced, and increasingly common.

They talk about what healthy AI use actually looks like, whyhuman relationships are supposed to feel hard, what to tell your kids about AI, and how using AI for the mental ticker might be one of the most meaningful things parents can do for their families right now.

WHAT WE COVER

• Meet Catia: spinning plates in Wimberley, two kids, two dogs, and a life built intentionally
• Why they left Austin for small-town life and what that taught Catia about what her family actually needed
• How Catia structured her work schedule around being present, not just available
• The radio show: how Catia asked a stranger for a hosting slot and got a yes
• TEDx Talk “Choose Joy or Die”: the bold title, the frequency theory behind it, and what she wasreally trying to say
• AI in the therapy room: what Catia is actually seeing with individual clients
• Anxiety, OCD, and the black hole of AI reassurance
• How she supports clients navigating AI use: the Planet Ozarka framework
• AI in couples and marriages: is it revealing friction or creating it?
• The relief factor: why AI is filling a real gap in some relationships
• Romantic relationships with AI and what Catia is seeing
• Complicated vs. complex: why humanrelationships are not problems to solve
• Kids and AI: the thinking machine talk, copilot in the kitchen, and what is developmentally appropriate
• What this moment is asking of parents and how creating margin is the answer
• Chatbot mode: phone habits, what she would never trust AI with, and her best relationship anti-advice
• A win worth celebrating and one takeaway for every parent

CONNECT WITH CATIA

Bright Light Marriage and Family Therapy:https://www.catiaholm.com/

Couch Time with Cat Podcast: https://couchtimewithcat.com/

TEDx Talk: Choose Joy or Die:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEWQSAtmtkw

CONNECT WITH AI-EMPOWEREDMOM

Website: AIEmpoweredMom.com

Newsletter: AIEmpoweredMom.beehiiv.com

Email: [email protected]

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