In this episode of We Made This Political, hosts Lura Forcum and Lauren Hall interview Grace Pate Pouch, author of Savoring Childhood: Practical Wisdom for Slowing Down and co-founder of Upstate Unplugged, about why childhood is “for being a child” and how modern life rushes kids (and adults) through it. They discuss instant gratification, fragmented attention, and disembodiment driven by phones, on-demand purchasing, and ed tech, arguing for intentionally “adding friction” through small, incremental choices that build patience, self-control, agency, and purpose. Grace connects slowing down to spiritual formation and civic life, emphasizing practices that develop the capacity to love, contribute, and respond well rather than merely knowing the right answers. She ends with optimism about Greenville County Schools’ new classroom tech limits and leaders publicly acknowledging overreliance on technology.00:00 Meet the Hosts01:12 Introducing Grace Pouch01:57 What Childhood Is For03:52 Why Life Feels Too Fast08:25 Adding Friction Back11:04 Attention and Presence15:15 Embodiment and Phones18:36 Analog Comeback22:47 Ed Tech Skepticism26:22 Institutional Pressures28:25 Culture and Agency30:27 Local Screen Advocacy31:46 Small Wins Mindset33:26 Spiritual Formation Focus37:11 Discipline Builds Freedom40:23 Slow Consuming Culture43:05 Participation Over Consumption48:16 Savoring Faith Through Play49:37 Struggle Grows Agency51:47 Counterpoints For Balance53:19 Where To Find Grace55:15 Optimism And Policy Wins56:24 Closing And Farewell

Additional Resources

“Mothers Are Not Machines”by writer Lindsey DeLoach Jones

Renovare Institute for Spiritual Formation

“Greenville County Schools Working to Reduce Screentime in Classrooms” — newspaper article on Rule 1A that Upstate Unplugged advocated to adopt

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