Illuman – The Cave and The Fire
Illuman - The Cave and The Fire
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Welcome to the Illuman Podcast, where we explore themes of spiritual transformation, inner work, and authentic masculinity. Join us as we dive into topics like Rites of Passage, Council practice, personal growth, connection, and service to the world. Rooted in Illuman's mission of fostering wholeness and radical belonging, this podcast invites men to walk a path of healing, vulnerability, and generative leadership. Whether you're new to Illuman or deeply immersed in the journey, these conversations are for you.
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The podcast covers themes of spiritual transformation and authentic masculinity, with episodes exploring topics like Rites of Passage, Council practices, and the journey of healing among men, exemplified by discussions such as Matthew Lyda's insights on grief and authentic living in the context of contemporary masculinity.

Welcome to the Illuman Podcast, where we explore themes of spiritual transformation, inner work, and authentic masculinity. Join us as we dive into topics like Rites of Passage, Council practice, personal growth, connection, and service to the world. Rooted in Illuman’s mission of fostering wholeness and radical belonging, this podcast invites men to walk a path of healing, vulnerability, and generative leadership. Whether you’re new to Illuman or deeply immersed in the journey, these conversations are for you.
In this episode, we open Season Two of The Cave and the Fire with a sacred story of grief, love, and letting go.
Jeffrey Batstone joins host Ned Abenroth to reflect on the passing of his mother—and how her death became a deeply embodied experience of ceremony, beauty, and presence. From washing and anointing her body to laying her in flowers and witnessing her cremation, Jeffrey shares how his family chose to meet death not with distance, but with reverence.
Together, they explore:
• How ritual makes space for grief, presence, and praise
• What it means to honor the body as sacred, even in death
• Why ceremony doesn’t need to be scripted to be holy
• How Illuman’s journey with masculine spirituality opens us to deeper thresholds
There are no lessons in this episode—no analysis or instruction. Just one man’s tender story, told around the fire.
🔸 A story of loss, love, and the quiet beauty of ritual
🔸 An invitation to let your own grief become ceremony
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