Her Seat At The Table
Her Seat At The Table
Podcast Description
A podcast that spotlights the women reshaping the hospitality industry, breaking barriers, and carving their paths in the ever-evolving world of restaurants, food, and community.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
Explores themes of sustainability, personal growth, and leadership within the hospitality sector, with episodes featuring in-depth talks such as Sandi Kronick discussing sustainable food systems and a live panel featuring leaders like Samantha Kotey and Vivian Howard exploring navigating challenges and evolving in their careers.

A podcast that spotlights the women reshaping the hospitality industry, breaking barriers, and carving their paths in the ever-evolving world of restaurants, food, and community.
Deirdre Auld, CEO of the Coda Group and leadership coach, shares her journey of professional evolution, the importance of reflective practice, and balancing growth with authenticity. Perfect for hospitality leaders and entrepreneurs looking to level up personally and professionally.
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Key Topics
- Deirdre’s path from service to CEO and the lessons learned along the way
- The importance of self-reflection and organizational learning for leadership effectiveness
- Strategies for creating space for team development amidst industry chaos
- How personal education, including grad school, boosted her leadership skills
- The impact of industry pandemic experiences on resilience and vision setting
- Practical tips for implementing regular reflection and post-mortems in hospitality
- The significance of confidence, vulnerability, and self-awareness in leadership
- Balancing industry demands with play, passion, and hobbies like embroidery and color theory
- Recognizing and honoring privilege while emphasizing hard work and perseverance
- The power of setting boundaries and prioritizing personal unicorn space
Timestamps
00:35 – Introduction to Deirdre Auld and her hospitality journey
1:03 – Deirdre’s background and collaborations with culinary legends
2:12 – Podcast recording style and organic conversations with Amy Poehler’s approach
3:44 – Deirdre’s insights on leadership and confidence in industry roles
4:34 – Long-term friendships and nostalgic reflections in hospitality history
6:35 – Evolution of Deirdre’s entrepreneurial ventures with Tableside and coaching
8:00 – Pivoting the business model for leadership development in restaurants
9:34 – Returning to leading Coda Group as CEO and reflecting on growth
10:28 – How leadership roles influence self-perception and confidence
13:53 – Deirdre’s early management experiences and leadership challenges
15:14 – Insights from her graduate studies on individual and organizational change
17:07 – Reflection practices improving team and personal performance
18:04 – Moving from reactive to strategic responses as a leader
20:12 – The value of post-mortem reviews and learning from big moments
22:05 – Prioritizing reflection despite industry busyness
23:36 – Coaching strategies for fostering self-reflection in teams
25:07 – Developmental meetings and leadership growth at SRV
28:18 – How to ascend through hospitality leadership levels effectively
31:37 – The importance of continuous learning and self-investment
34:52 – Resilience through industry crises and COVID-19 impacts
36:56 – The significance of higher education and access to learning opportunities
38:23 – Transitioning from service manager to GM and the associated responsibilities
42:36 – Avoiding martyr complex and leading sustainably
44:49 – Industry urgency and building long-term resilient businesses
46:01 – Overcoming people-pleasing tendencies for authentic leadership
48:23 – Moving from day-to-day ops to visionary leadership and strategic focus
50:42 – Giving team members agency and fostering curiosity
55:47 – Coaching questions to empower problem-solving in teams
58:46 – Balancing visibility and humility as a leader
62:49 – Personal hobbies for joy and self-care, from embroidery to color theory
66:40 – The importance of recognizing the context-dependent nature of colors
69:17 – Cultivating curiosity about life’s nuances and the role of perspective
71:39 – Final thoughts on authentic leadership and continuous growth
Resources & Links
- Tableside Coaching Practice
- Deirdre Auld on LinkedIn
- Coda Group
- Amy Poehler’s Biography
- Harvard Business Review on Reflection
Connect with Deirdre

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