What happens when the life you planned doesn’t quite line up with the life you’re living? In this solo episode, The Detour Decade: Who I Thought I’d Be, I peel back the curtain on the twists, turns, and unexpected detours that shaped my 20s and 30s.

This isn’t just about missed opportunities—it’s about redefining what success looks like when the spotlight fades, the applause quiets down, and you’re left face-to-face with yourself. I talk about the dreams I chased, the ones I outgrew, and the ones I didn’t even know I wanted until life redirected me.

If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “How did I end up here?” or “Am I behind?”—this episode is for you. Think of it as a real, raw reflection mixed with a little hope, a little humor, and a lot of truth.

And because this series ties into my collection of essays, What I’ve Learned in 30 Years, I’ll also be sharing excerpts along the way, weaving together personal storytelling with themes from pop culture—yes, even my favorite TV binges that sparked deeper conversations about life, grief, and growth.

✨ Stick around until the end for details on the complete essay collection and how this podcast series will unfold. Trust me—you don’t want to miss it.