Be a Happier Parent
Be a Happier Parent
Podcast Description
Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting is going to be like and what it actually is? Why when we have children do we think it’s going to bring us closer together but often it really pushes us apart? What are the jobs of mums and dads now? What’s a dad when we’re no longer just providers? What’s a mum when they often are? What am I supposed to teach or model for my children when I’ve no idea what the world is going to look like in five years time?
Why did my parents seem to have loads of conviction about these things and I have absolutely none? In this podcast I interview top authors, therapists, coaches and try and find out how the trials of parenting can help us become better humans.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast examines a variety of themes including gender division of household labor, the emotional challenges of parenting, and the impact of societal expectations on family dynamics. For example, episodes discuss the 'Fair Play' movement led by Eve Rodsky, highlighting the inequities in domestic tasks and how they affect relationships, while also addressing the importance of personal fulfillment through 'unicorn space'.
Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting is going to be like and what it actually is? Why when we have children do we think it’s going to bring us closer together but often it really pushes us apart? What are the jobs of mums and dads now? What’s a dad when we’re no longer just providers? What’s a mum when they often are? What am I supposed to teach or model for my children when I’ve no idea what the world is going to look like in five years time?
Why did my parents seem to have loads of conviction about these things and I have absolutely none? In this podcast I interview top authors, therapists, coaches and try and find out how the trials of parenting can help us become better humans.
Check out Joanna’s Website: www.joannaharrison.co.uk
Find me on Instagram @beahappierparent
Keywords
couples therapy, divorce lawyer, communication, relationship advice, arguments, parenting, emotional connection, intimacy, relationship dynamics, conflict resolution
Summary
In this conversation, Joanna Harrison, a former divorce lawyer turned couples therapist, discusses her journey and the insights she has gained about relationships. She emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and navigating the complexities of couple dynamics. Joanna outlines five essential arguments that all couples need to have, highlighting the significance of curiosity and negotiation in maintaining healthy relationships. The discussion also touches on the challenges of parenting and the balance between time spent together and apart.
Takeaways
Joanna transitioned from divorce law to couples therapy to focus on the emotional aspects of relationships.
Couples therapy is not just about saving relationships; it’s about exploring what comes next.
Arguments in relationships can lead to growth and understanding.
Communication is a continuous process that requires effort from both partners.
Couples need to negotiate their roles and responsibilities to avoid conflict.
Curiosity about each other’s experiences is crucial for relationship health.
It’s important to show that you have your partner in mind during daily activities.
Different parenting styles can lead to conflict, but they can also complement each other.
Listening to your partner does not mean you have to agree with them.
Planning time together requires understanding each other’s needs.
Sound bites
“Communication is an ongoing process.”
“Arguments offer the potential for growth.”
“We can’t plan everything in advance.”
Chapters
00:00 NEWCHAPTER
02:23 From Divorce Lawyer to Couples Therapist
03:37 Understanding the Dynamics of Arguments
05:53 The Five Essential Arguments Couples Need to Have
08:54 The Importance of Communication in Relationships
10:53 Exploring the Role of Anger in Communication
17:15 Creating Safe Spaces for Difficult Conversations
20:55 Curiosity and Understanding in Relationships
29:59 Understanding Individual Issues in Relationships
32:19 The Dynamics of Couples Therapy
33:31 Parenting Styles and Their Impact
44:29 Navigating Time Together and Apart
52:48 The Evolution of Relationships After Kids
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