Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K.
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K.
Podcast Description
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K is a podcast for women who are rewriting the rules of motherhood—on purpose. Hosted by Alexandra K, a single mom by choice and former fertility patient, this show dives deep into the real stories, messy emotions, and hard-earned wisdom behind donor conception, solo parenting, and navigating modern fertility systems as a Black woman.
Alexandra started this podcast with one goal: to make sure no one has to wonder if this path is possible—or if they’re the only one thinking about it. When she first began her own journey, she searched for “single mom on purpose” just hoping to find someone else out there like her. Now, she’s building the space she once needed: a community where your questions, fears, and dreams are all welcome.
Each week, you’ll hear honest conversations, listener-submitted dilemmas, and guest interviews exploring everything from choosing a sperm donor to answering your child’s toughest questions, to reclaiming joy and agency in solo motherhood.
Whether you’re considering this path, deep in the trenches, or parenting solo already—you’re not alone.
New episodes every Tuesday. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast covers a range of topics related to solo motherhood, donor conception, and the emotional complexities surrounding these experiences. Episodes delve into themes such as choosing a sperm donor, managing the psychological impacts of IVF, and how to find community as a single parent. Specific episodes highlight personal stories from guests like Brittany L., discussing the emotional burden of dealing with unexpected embryos, and Stephanie G., who shares insights on making independent choices while facing societal expectations.
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K is a podcast for women who are rewriting the rules of motherhood—on purpose. Hosted by Alexandra K, a single mom by choice and former fertility patient, this show dives deep into the real stories, messy emotions, and hard-earned wisdom behind donor conception, solo parenting, and navigating modern fertility systems as a Black woman.
Alexandra started this podcast with one goal: to make sure no one has to wonder if this path is possible—or if they’re the only one thinking about it. When she first began her own journey, she searched for “single mom on purpose” just hoping to find someone else out there like her. Now, she’s building the space she once needed: a community where your questions, fears, and dreams are all welcome.
Each week, you’ll hear honest conversations, listener-submitted dilemmas, and guest interviews exploring everything from choosing a sperm donor to answering your child’s toughest questions, to reclaiming joy and agency in solo motherhood.
Whether you’re considering this path, deep in the trenches, or parenting solo already—you’re not alone.
New episodes every Tuesday. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.
Dee & Lisa | Sister Moms & Telling the Truth
Season 1 Finale
In this powerful Season 1 finale of Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K, I’m joined by two of my sister moms — Demetria @cannaqueeriousnp and Lisa @fernwehlisa — the mothers of my children’s donor sibling.
Together, we share what it’s like raising children who are connected not by circumstance, but by donor conception. We explore how we found each other, how we’ve nurtured sibling bonds between our kids, and how we show up for one another as a modern-day chosen family.
We also discuss the importance of truth-telling in donor conception:
Keeping the details of your child’s conception a secret isn’t protecting them—it’s lying to them.
This episode is a heartfelt close to a season filled with honesty, vulnerability, and deep connection—and it’s a love letter to all the SMBCs building families with courage and intention.
Solicited Advice:
This week’s listener has connected with other families who used the same donor—but she’s unsure of when and how to tell her child that they have donor siblings. We explore how to approach this conversation with transparency, sensitivity, and age-appropriate honesty.
Guest Info:
Demetria: @cannaqueeriousnp
Lisa: @fernwehlisa
Let’s Connect:
Submit your story or a question for Season 2: [email protected]
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