Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K.
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K.
Podcast Description
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K is a podcast for women who are rewriting the rules of motherhood—on purpose. Hosted by Alexandra K, a single mom by choice and former fertility patient, this show dives deep into the real stories, messy emotions, and hard-earned wisdom behind donor conception, solo parenting, and navigating modern fertility systems as a Black woman.
Alexandra started this podcast with one goal: to make sure no one has to wonder if this path is possible—or if they’re the only one thinking about it. When she first began her own journey, she searched for “single mom on purpose” just hoping to find someone else out there like her. Now, she’s building the space she once needed: a community where your questions, fears, and dreams are all welcome.
Each week, you’ll hear honest conversations, listener-submitted dilemmas, and guest interviews exploring everything from choosing a sperm donor to answering your child’s toughest questions, to reclaiming joy and agency in solo motherhood.
Whether you’re considering this path, deep in the trenches, or parenting solo already—you’re not alone.
New episodes every Tuesday. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast covers a range of topics related to solo motherhood, donor conception, and the emotional complexities surrounding these experiences. Episodes delve into themes such as choosing a sperm donor, managing the psychological impacts of IVF, and how to find community as a single parent. Specific episodes highlight personal stories from guests like Brittany L., discussing the emotional burden of dealing with unexpected embryos, and Stephanie G., who shares insights on making independent choices while facing societal expectations.
Who’s the Daddy w/ Alexandra K is a podcast for women who are rewriting the rules of motherhood—on purpose. Hosted by Alexandra K, a single mom by choice and former fertility patient, this show dives deep into the real stories, messy emotions, and hard-earned wisdom behind donor conception, solo parenting, and navigating modern fertility systems as a Black woman.
Alexandra started this podcast with one goal: to make sure no one has to wonder if this path is possible—or if they’re the only one thinking about it. When she first began her own journey, she searched for “single mom on purpose” just hoping to find someone else out there like her. Now, she’s building the space she once needed: a community where your questions, fears, and dreams are all welcome.
Each week, you’ll hear honest conversations, listener-submitted dilemmas, and guest interviews exploring everything from choosing a sperm donor to answering your child’s toughest questions, to reclaiming joy and agency in solo motherhood.
Whether you’re considering this path, deep in the trenches, or parenting solo already—you’re not alone.
New episodes every Tuesday. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.
Brittany L. | More than Embryos & Too Many Choices
This week, I’m joined by Brittany, a solo mom by choice who opens up about what it’s like to navigate life after having your first child through IVF—and being left with more embryos than you ever expected.
We talk about how surreal it feels when people ask if you’ll donate your embryos, and how personal and emotionally layered that question can be. Brittany and I both reflect on the grief that comes with knowing you may never meet the children you created—and the complicated reality of being in a space that celebrates donation when your heart says no.
This is a raw and honest conversation about ownership, boundaries, and how hard it is to make decisions you never thought you’d be faced with.
Solicited Advice:
This week’s listener question comes from a solo mom by choice who’s feeling overwhelmed by all the options available to her—clinics, donors, treatments, timelines—and wants to know how to move forward when everything feels like too much. We talk about getting grounded, simplifying your process, and tuning out the noise so you can follow your path, not everyone else’s.
Guest Info:
Brittany L.
Single mom by choice and IVF mama
Follow her on Instagram: @bey_love_
Resources Mentioned:
• Submit your question for “Solicited Advice”: [email protected]
• Follow the show on IG: @whosthedaddypod
• Watch full episodes on YouTube
Let’s Connect!
Follow Alexandra: @lifewithalexandrak
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