🎙️ In this episode of The WOVA Circle Fertility Podcast, I’m joined by Alexandra Stockwell, MD, physician, relationship and intimacy expert, and author of Uncompromising Intimacy, for an honest conversation about love, desire, and intimacy during the fertility journey.

When sex becomes another item on the TTC to-do list, intimacy can start to disappear. What began with excitement and connection can become scheduled, pressured, and focused entirely on conception. But what happens when couples stop treating intimacy as something they have to “get through” and start finding their way back to curiosity, pleasure, and connection?

Alexandra challenges the idea that compromise is always the key to a healthy relationship and explains what it means to be uncompromising in love. We talk about how curiosity can transform a relationship, how to communicate honestly about what you actually want, and how couples can reconnect with sensuality and desire, even during one of the most stressful seasons of their relationship.

We also get very practical, with Alexandra sharing specific tools couples can use during the fertility journey, from non-sexual physical touch to five minutes of daily pleasure and the “conscious redo” for interrupting negative relationship patterns.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

❤️ Why compromise isn’t always the answer in a relationship

❤️ What it really means to be uncompromising in love

❤️ How curiosity can transform intimacy and connection

❤️ Why desire can disappear when sex becomes focused on having a baby

❤️ How scheduled sex and fertility treatment can affect a couple’s relationship

❤️ How to communicate so you actually feel heard

❤️ Why non-sexual physical touch can be especially important during the fertility journey

❤️ How couples can reconnect with desire, pleasure, and playfulness

❤️ Why five minutes of daily pleasure can make a difference

❤️ How the “conscious redo” can help interrupt negative relationship patterns

❤️ Why conflict and passion aren't necessarily opposites

✨ This episode is for anyone trying to conceive who has felt the pressure of scheduled sex, lost some of their desire, or simply wants to protect their relationship while navigating fertility challenges. You’ll walk away with practical ways to bring more curiosity, connection, pleasure, and playfulness back into your relationship.

🎧 Tune in now for an honest and empowering conversation about intimacy, desire, and staying connected while trying to build a family.

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Alexandra Stockwell's Resources:

Website: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com
Her book: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/
Podcast: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/podcast

Understanding the Complexities of the Sexual Differences Between Men and Women podcast episode Dr Stockwell mentioned during our talk: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/understanding-the-complexity-of-the-sexual-differences-between-men-and-women-feat-sheri-winston/

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