In this episode, explore fantasies of BDSM and FemDom as Gemma and Seraphyna bare their deepest desires and kinky beginnings from long before either became a pro Dominatrix. From the imprint of a movie to dreams of being worshipped like Cleopatra, and even the weight of a strict religious upbringing, the hosts unravel how early experiences have shaped fantasies at play in their D/s dynamics today.
For some, fantasies provide comfort. For others, it’s the power to make someone squirm. But more often, fantasies are something deeper—a way to feel what we’re too afraid to ask for in the light.
So the question becomes: Will you live out your fantasy or someone else’s? And in the heat of a scene—does it matter?

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Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 

CHAPTERS: 

00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – Fantasies and styles of dominating

06:36 – Early signs of dominance and understanding the submissive mind

12:06 – Gemma’s first fantasy of dominance

15:50– How Seraphyna became Goddess: Religious explorations

19:10 – Tiptoeing the edge, Gemma’s ultimate fantasy

20:50 – Kink empathy and shared experience

24:50 – How submission and service continue outside a scene

26:35 – What are Domspace and subspace?

29:35 – The breadth of human experience

31:57 – Bondage as a symbol of surrender

32:50 – How immobilization can free you

36:20 – A public humiliation fantasy