In this episode, Cliff and his daughter Eva have a candid, unfiltered conversation about the proposed UK social media ban for under‑16s. They explore how platforms like YouTube and gaming chats help many autistic and ADHD kids regulate, connect and unwind – and why a blanket ban could do more harm than good.

Eva shares why she and many of her friends and classmates who are also neuro-divergent and under 16 have mixed feelings about the proposed ban.

 Cliff digs into the risks of digital IDs and face verification, while both emphasise that real online safety comes from informed, involved parenting, not one‑size‑fits‑all government control.

EPISODE REVEALS

• For many neurodivergent kids, social media is a core regulation tool. Often, it´s how they decompress, connect and create predictable background noise after hard days.

• Sudden removal of access to platforms kids social on risks emotional “crash” and withdrawal.

• A blanket ban cuts off access to a source of music, educational videos and fun content as well as potentially harmful content.

• Tough love around tech – consistent limits, bedtimes, and content guidance – can feel harsh in the moment, yet over time children often reinterpret it as care and safety.

• Monitoring tools help a lot, but they don´t catch everything and are not a replacement for a strong relationship and open conversations with your child.

• Digital ID requirements and face verification raise serious concerns about privacy, data security and future social‑credit‑style control, especially when normalised for children.

BEST MOMENTS

“At the end of the day, this isn’t the government’s job, is it? It’s ours.”

“Yes, it’s going to be difficult, but you’ve got the tools. You’ve got, then the knowledge what’s going on with your child.”

“Social media is how most people my age, possibly younger, connect with each other.”

“It’s not going to help that you kids have grown up with this, and then suddenly it’s cut away. So, there’s going to be withdrawal symptoms.”

EPISODE RESOURCES

FamiSafe: https://wondersharesoftware.pxf.io/ParentingAUDHD

RESOURCES

Cliff´s book “What To Do When Your Child Shuts Down” – ⁠⁠https://amzn.eu/d/3trk6pw

CLIFF´S SERVICES

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CONTACT ME

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HOST BIO

Cliff Kilmister is a dedicated parent, advocate, and cat whisperer with firsthand experience raising a child with autism, ADHD, and Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD). Having navigated the challenges of school refusal, meltdowns, and sensory sensitivities, Cliff brings an empathetic, real-world perspective to the podcast. When he’s not helping his child thrive, he’s dodging the evil stares of his three cats, who are plotting to take over the world (fortunately, they still haven’t figured out how to use the tin opener). Cliff offers practical advice, expert insights, and personal stories to help families facing similar struggles. Cliff is focused on connecting with professionals and networks to raise awareness about the growing need for the education system to adapt to the increasing neurodiverse population. Join the community on Patreon to share experiences, access exclusive content, and work together for change!

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