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What if our greatest failures are actually doorways to our most authentic lives? In this deeply reflective conversation, we're joined by Mel, who shares her journey of growing up in what she lovingly describes as ”the Adams Family” – a household of eccentric intellectuals who valued knowledge above all else.

Mel's family shaped her unique perspective on life's ups and downs: ”Money comes and goes, but knowledge is the thing that you hang on to.” This philosophy has guided her through a creative career spanning film, camera work, and now digital archiving and preservation.

The heart of our discussion explores the concept of failure and how we respond to it. With remarkable self-awareness, Mel acknowledges her ”psychotically determined” nature – recognizing both its power and its potential toxicity. We travel through fascinating examples, including how Pete Buttigieg's presidential campaign ”failure” ultimately led him to a cabinet position perfectly matched to his skills as a former mayor.

Perhaps most importantly, we examine how maintaining composure during confrontation becomes a superpower. ”You can act mad, but you can't be mad,” Mel advises those entering advocacy spaces. This distinction between expressing emotions authentically versus being controlled by them offers wisdom applicable to any meaningful dialogue.

Mel leaves us with a powerful thought to carry forward: ”Learn to love your mistakes and your ugly sides a little bit more, because your ugly sides need some love too.” In embracing our whole selves – failures, flaws, and all – we discover the pathway to living more authentically every day.

Join us for this thoughtful exploration of resilience, self-acceptance, and finding meaning in life's unexpected detours. What failures might actually be redirecting you toward something better?

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