Do You Even Know Me?

Do You Even Know Me?
Podcast Description
We’re Heather and Alyssa—two friends who talk about the stuff you usually save for your group chat or a really late-night phone call. From relationship red flags and religious trauma to therapy wins and awkward sex stories, nothing’s off the table.
We’re not here to shock—we’re just not afraid to say it out loud. It’s a little messy, sometimes funny, and hopefully healing.
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Covers a variety of contemporary topics including relationship dynamics, mental health, sexuality, and societal issues. Notable episodes include examinations of BookTok's influence on dating culture, discussions on young men's feelings of isolation and expectations, and explorations of attachment theory through personal anecdotes.

We’re Heather and Alyssa—two friends who talk about the stuff you usually save for your group chat or a really late-night phone call. From relationship red flags and religious trauma to therapy wins and awkward sex stories, nothing’s off the table.
We’re not here to shock—we’re just not afraid to say it out loud. It’s a little messy, sometimes funny, and hopefully healing.
This week, we dove into the twisted world of BookTok where “romance” looks a lot like emotional manipulation, stalking, and straight-up abuse—wrapped in a pretty bow and sold as passion. From Haunting Adeline to The Gift, we unpack how these stories are influencing dating culture and why so many people are thirsting over literal walking red flags. Is it just fantasy? Or are we normalizing toxicity in the name of ”love”?
As always, it’s raw, a little chaotic, and just judgmental enough.
Follow us on all the things and tell us your toxic book crush (we know you have one).

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