Empathy By Design
Podcast Description
Empathy by Design is a podcast that dives into the heart of what it means to design for our shared humanity. Across the worlds of technology, wellness, and community, we explore how thoughtful, empathetic design can bridge divides, foster connection, and spark meaningful change.
Each episode features conversations with innovators, creators, and change-makers who are reimagining the way we approach our world. From building tech that prioritizes people to cultivating wellness practices that truly heal, to shaping communities grounded in inclusivity, we deeply explore the process of designing with intention and care.
Whether you’re a designer, a dreamer, or someone who simply believes in creating a more compassionate world, Empathy by Design is an invitation to imagine what’s possible when we lead with empathy.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast explores themes around technology, wellness, and community, with episodes focusing on trauma-informed care, client-centered design, and inclusive practices. For example, the episode with Tristan Kelan discusses how to integrate trauma-informed principles into behavioral health services, illustrating the significance of balancing data-driven solutions with compassionate client care.
Empathy by Design is a podcast that dives into the heart of what it means to design for our shared humanity. Across the worlds of technology, wellness, and community, we explore how thoughtful, empathetic design can bridge divides, foster connection, and spark meaningful change.
Each episode features conversations with innovators, creators, and change-makers who are reimagining the way we approach our world. From building tech that prioritizes people to cultivating wellness practices that truly heal, to shaping communities grounded in inclusivity, we deeply explore the process of designing with intention and care.
Whether you’re a designer, a dreamer, or someone who simply believes in creating a more compassionate world, Empathy by Design is an invitation to imagine what’s possible when we lead with empathy.
Short description (for Apple/Spotify)
Tiny, well-placed practices—what we call Tiny Signals—can gently rewire the nervous system. In this episode, Julie and therapist Sarah O’Brien, LCSW blend BJ Fogg’s Tiny Habits, polyvagal theory, and DBT to show how micro-moments become durable skills for self-soothing, boundaries, and repair. Expect clear examples you can use today, from a one-breath phone pause to a hum on the exhale after tough calls.
Full episode description
If 2017–2024 was the era of boundaries, let 2025 be the year of rupture and repair—with ourselves and each other. Julie introduces Tiny Signals, micro-practices anchored to daily routines that cue “safe enough” in the body. Guest Sarah O’Brien, LCSW maps those signals onto DBT—Mindfulness, Emotion Regulation, Distress Tolerance, and Interpersonal Effectiveness—showing why validation and predictability matter more than motivation. Learn how to insert 30-second resets into real life (inbox urgency, co-parenting calls, late-night doom-scrolling) and why great digital health design must go beyond content libraries to scaffold behavior change.
You’ll learn:
Why predictability wires safety better than willpower
How DBT validation keeps the learning channel open
Two plug-and-play practices: the phone pause breath and a post-call hum
A 7-day Tiny Signals Starter Pack you can begin tonight
How to hold boundaries without absorbing other people’s urgency
Try it now: Place a hand on chest and belly. Inhale through the nose, hum the exhale. Whisper: “Yes. I have time.”
Chapter guide
00:00 Welcome & why “start small, spiral deeper”
02:05 Tiny Signals & roots in Tiny Habits (+ Ayurvedic daily rhythms)
07:40 Polyvagal 101: safety, threat, shutdown
12:10 DBT in four skill families (and why validation is the intervention)
18:30 Where Tiny Signals + DBT meet
25:15 Two micro-practices you can anchor today
31:20 Boundaries in urgent systems: “Their urgency ≠ my emergency”
38:10 Harm reduction: pairing a healthy cue with an old coping pattern
44:25 Designing digital health beyond content libraries
52:00 7-Day Tiny Signals Starter Pack
57:30 Resources & next episode teaser (HR + nervous-system lens)
Guest
Sarah O’Brien, LCSW is a trauma-informed therapist, writer, and trainer based in Virginia specializing in anxiety, substance use, and trauma-related disorders, with deep experience delivering and teaching DBT.
Who this episode is for
People with lived trauma experience, clinicians, educators, HR/benefits leaders, and anyone who wants nervous-system care that is doable, ethical, and compassionate.
Links & CTAs
Explore Daily Tiny Signals, Flows, and Immersives in the Integrate app
Find Sarah O’Brien, LCSW via the Integrate Affinity Group or her site.
Subscribe to Empathy by Design for more trauma-informed, behavior-design conversations.
Keywords: Tiny Habits, Polyvagal Theory, DBT, Trauma-Informed, Nervous System, Behavior Design, Validation, Distress Tolerance, Boundaries, Digital Health Design
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