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A debilitating fear that often goes unacknowledged – but what if that fear has four legs and follows you everywhere you go? 

Stefani Cohen, a licensed clinical social worker with extensive experience helping children and families, joins us to shed light on an overlooked phobia that restricts countless lives. Unlike fears of heights or spiders that only occasionally interfere with daily activities, cynophobia (fear of dogs) creates constant limitations in a world where our canine companions are everywhere – from neighborhoods and parks to friends' homes and outdoor cafes.

Through fascinating insights and practical wisdom, Stefani reveals how well-intentioned actions often backfire. When parents help children avoid dogs or hosts put their pets away during visits, they inadvertently reinforce the message that dogs are dangerous, creating a cycle where fears intensify rather than fade. ”By putting the dog away, that inadvertently reinforces the fear… the translation is: wow, that dog must be dangerous,” Stephanie explains.

The conversation takes us through her unique methodology combining exposure therapy with education about dog communication. We learn why meeting dogs outside on leash reduces anxiety, how to recognize the warning signs that precede 99% of dog bites, and why standing still like a tree rather than running is essential safety knowledge. For those facing immediate threats, Stefani shares the life-saving advice to ”crouch down like a rock and cover your head.”

What makes this approach truly transformative goes beyond dog interactions. When children overcome significant fears, they develop confidence that transfers to other life challenges. ”I want you to remember – if you can do this, you can do anything,” Stefani tells her clients. Her success stories – from the seven-year-old who progressed from crying in her car to confidently petting a therapy dog, to the six-year-old who went from hiding behind furniture to showing a dog her dance moves – demonstrate the profound impact of facing fears with proper support.

Whether you're personally affected by dog phobia or supporting someone who is, this eye-opening conversation offers hope, practical strategies, and a path forward. Connect with Stefani through her books ”Overcoming Your Child's Fear of Dogs” and ”How to Face My Fear of Dogs,” or reach out directly for consultation that could change your relationship with the canine world forever.

Stefani's groundbreaking work was inspired by her own daughter’s struggles with dog phobia—an often overlooked yet highly disruptive fear. What began as a personal mission has grown into a national resource, complete with two empowering books: Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs and How To Face My Fear of Dogs (a companion activity guide for kids). You can find Stefani at https://overcomefearofdogs.com.

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