Have you been told that your divorce will inevitably be a battle to the bitter end? Or perhaps someone convinced you that because your name isn't on the house deed, you have no claim to it? These and other persistent misconceptions about divorce can dramatically affect your decisions and outcomes—often for the worse.

In this myth-busting episode, host Jonathan Merel sits down with experienced family law attorneys Brad Kaye and Jaclyn DeSana to demolish the most common divorce myths that lead people astray. Together, they unpack why these misconceptions exist, how they spread through social media, TV portrayals, and well-meaning but misinformed friends, and the real harm they cause to people navigating separation.

The attorneys provide clear, practical explanations about everything from property division (”no name, no claim” is completely false) to custody arrangements (no, mothers don't automatically get preference, and children can't simply choose at age 14). They address the truth about fault in divorce proceedings, clarify what constitutes domestic violence beyond physical abuse, and explain why Google cannot replace professional legal counsel.

Perhaps most valuable is their insight into how believing these myths can derail your divorce process—causing unnecessary delays, inflated costs, and agreements that may prove unenforceable. As Brad Kaye puts it, ”The best attorneys pour water on a fire. They don't pour gasoline on it,” highlighting how proper legal counsel often prevents litigation rather than encourages it.

Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the middle of proceedings, or supporting someone who is, this episode provides essential clarity that could save you time, money, and emotional distress. Listen now to separate divorce facts from fiction and make decisions based on reality rather than rumor.

Have questions about your specific situation? Reach out to the team at MerelFamilyLaw.com for professional guidance tailored to your circumstances.