Beyond Vanilla
Podcast Description
Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…
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Content Themes
The podcast dives into themes such as open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and the dynamics of friendship in non-monogamous contexts. Episodes often feature personal stories and humor, with topics ranging from practical advice on navigating non-monogamy to sharing spicy personal anecdotes, creating an engaging and relatable listening experience.

Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

18+ Listener Warning: This episode contains open discussions about sexual assault, misconduct, and boundary violations in the lifestyle. Please listen with care, and skip this one if it may be triggering for you.
Episode 14: When Boundaries Are Crossed – Talking About Assault & Misconduct in the Lifestyle
Today’s episode is a more serious one, but one we feel is so important.
We’re talking openly about sexual assault, misconduct, and inappropriate behaviour within the swinging lifestyle,
This includes stories from all four of us, including the boys, because we believe it’s time we stop ignoring how these issues affect everyone, not just women.
You’ll hear: Our personal stories and experiences
A powerful story from our friend Bella, shared with her permission
Why misconduct toward men is often overlooked
The cultural differences in etiquette between countries
Why boundaries and consent must always come first — no matter where you are
We know the lifestyle can be one of the most supportive, loving, empowering communities — but that doesn’t mean it’s perfect. And when things do go wrong, it’s crucial that we talk about it.
If anything in this episode resonates with you, know that you're not alone, and it wasn’t your fault. Our DMs and inbox are always open if you need to talk.
Download our FREE Rules & Boundaries quiz: https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla
Lots of love
Amy, Emily, Ben & Darren x
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