The Fat and Horny Podcast
The Fat and Horny Podcast
Podcast Description
Let's talk about the sexy and not so sexy! The Fat & Horny Podcast is a safe space for African women to share authentic conversations about their sexual experiences and discoveries, viewed through the lens of fat women.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The show focuses on various themes surrounding sexuality, body image, and empowerment, featuring episodes like discussions on body dysmorphia, experiences of sexual preferences with women, embarrassing sexual moments, and the intersection of fatness and queerness in the context of societal standards.
They lied to you. Women are sexual beings!
Welcome to The Fat and Horny Podcast, hosted by Nobuhle N Nyoni. This is a space where fat women talk about sex and sexuality, sexual health and wellness, sex education, body image, and sexual trauma with a keen eye on how they all connect. We recognise the intersection of sex, African cultures and traditions, and religion (a.k.a. colonisation). There are harmful patriarchal practices that have been passed down through generations that we haven’t been able to dissect for decades. But here, we do.
We know it sounds too serious, but we promise we have a good time with it, too. Dawryn Nyiramugisha, a sex coach, teaches us how to breathe during sex for heightened pleasure. Alwande, a somatic sex coach, shares funny and vulnerable moments that shaped her sexual confidence. Warimi Karogo, host of the 69 Podcast, paints a picture of what sexual practices looked like before colonisation to highlight the erasure of African culture and history.
See? We keep it balanced because decolonising sex should feel that way. The goal? To educate women out of sexual trauma and into pleasure. Fat or not!
Please help us reach more women discovering their sexuality, healing from sexual trauma, and learning to love their bodies beyond society’s beauty standards. Rate or follow The Fat and Horny Podcast on Spotify, Afripods, or Apple Podcasts. It helps others find us, and we would love to have them in this community.
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Keywords: sex and sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, body image, fat women, pleasure, sexual trauma, African culture, decolonising sex
Content Warning: This episode contains conversations about various forms of sexual assault and violence. Please prioritise your well-being and listen with care. If you need to, feel free to skip this episode.
In this episode, Alice Mills Mai helps us understand the sexual trauma often faced by same-sex violence survivors. She defines what intimate partner violence can look like and speaks to the reality that healing and trauma recovery don’t look the same for every survivor. Society and authorities lessen the severity of these charges because “it was just a woman.” Yet bodies only remember the sexual violence exerted on them, not the gender of the perpetrator. This problem exists because the legal definition of rape or sexual assault is penetration-centred, ignoring non-consensual acts such as touching, coercion, and the violation of boundaries within BDSM dynamics.
Dr. Alice brings a key perspective on validating survivors’ experiences, especially when their trauma is dismissed because the perpetrator was another woman. The discussion sheds light on the barriers faced by marginalised groups, including Black women, masculine-presenting lesbians, and fat women, who are often not believed by law enforcement or their own communities.
Please help us reach more women discovering their sexuality, healing from sexual trauma, and learning to love their bodies beyond society’s beauty standards. Rate or follow The Fat and Horny Podcast on Spotify, Afripodsor Apple Podcasts. It helps others find us, and we would love to have them in this community.
More from us:
Subscribe to theYoung & Oversharing Newsletter
Follow us on TikTok: @youngandoversharing
Support the podcast:
If you want to hear more conversations like this, please support the podcast by buying us a coffee. Every dime and dollar counts when it comes to women’s pleasure. Buy us a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/foryoungwomen
Be a guest:
If you are an expert in sex, sexuality, or sexual health, or you have a personal experience that taught you how to heal or reclaim your pleasure, we would love to have you on the show. Please send your pitch to [email protected].
Sponsored by Content Is Queen.
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Keywords: sexual violence, sexual assault, sexual trauma, consent, LGBTQIA+, body image, sex and sexuality, trauma healing, Dr Alice The Trauma Therapist,
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