The Intimacy Inquiry

The Intimacy Inquiry
Podcast Description
Welcome to The Intimacy Inquiry. Join us for open, curious, and non-judgmental conversations exploring the vast landscape of intimacy and sexuality. We delve into everything, including but not limited to, the value of good sex education to the importance of exploring and understanding our own bodies, overcoming trauma, and how to forge deeper connections with your partner, .Our expert guests include sex therapists, adult content creators, sexologists, authors, somatic healers, porn addiction specialists, marriage and family therapists, intimacy therapists, trauma-informed counselors, and many more.Using explicit language with respect, we fearlessly tackle topics like love, desire, passion, relationships, sexuality and gender, BDSM, tantric sex, massage, touching, kissing, and masturbation – essentially, anything and everything related to intimacy.If you're ready to explore the complexities and nuances of human connection and desire in a respectful and insightful way, you've found your space. Subscribe to The Intimacy Inquiry and join the conversation.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast focuses on an array of themes surrounding intimacy, including sexual education, trauma recovery, relationship dynamics, and personal connections. Noteworthy episodes highlight discussions on the significance of comprehensive sex education, the cultural implications of pornography, and practices for deepening intimacy, tackling topics such as BDSM and self-pleasure.

Welcome to The Intimacy Inquiry. Join us for open, curious, and non-judgmental conversations exploring the vast landscape of intimacy and sexuality. We delve into everything, including but not limited to, the value of good sex education to the importance of exploring and understanding our own bodies, overcoming trauma, and how to forge deeper connections with your partner, .
Our expert guests include sex therapists, adult content creators, sexologists, authors, somatic healers, porn addiction specialists, marriage and family therapists, intimacy therapists, trauma-informed counselors, and many more.
Using explicit language with respect, we fearlessly tackle topics like love, desire, passion, relationships, sexuality and gender, BDSM, tantric sex, massage, touching, kissing, and masturbation – essentially, anything and everything related to intimacy.
If you’re ready to explore the complexities and nuances of human connection and desire in a respectful and insightful way, you’ve found your space. Subscribe to The Intimacy Inquiry and join the conversation.
Navigating Relationships with Kristal DeSantis: Trauma-Informed Therapy and Modern Masculinity
In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis discusses her journey into the field of relational therapy and her creation of the strong model of relational therapy. She explores the complexities of modern relationships, including emotional safety, evolving gender roles, and the challenges of modern masculinity.
Kristal, who is also a certified trauma and sex therapy professional, shares insights from her book ‘Strong, A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.’ Growing up in a cross-cultural household in Japan gave her unique perspectives on relationships, which were further shaped by her experiences in the U.S. She emphasizes the importance of understanding self-awareness, communication, and safety in building healthy relationships.
Additionally, Kristal addresses the impact of societal and media pressures on modern masculinity and offers advice for both men and women to foster stronger, more resilient partnerships.
00:00 Introduction to Kristal DeSantis
01:11 Kristal’s Cross-Cultural Upbringing
03:48 Navigating American Dating Culture
05:20 The Birth of a Therapist
07:37 Developing the Strong Model of Relational Therapy
12:41 Challenges of Modern Masculinity
19:12 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships
22:51 The Importance of Communication in Relationships
23:32 Establishing Safety in Relationships
25:33 The Science of Safety in Relationships
27:28 Building Trust in Couples Therapy
28:12 Respect and Power Dynamics
29:54 The STRONG Model for Relationship Survival
30:42 Openness, Nurturing, and Generosity
32:45 Navigating Empty Nest Syndrome
44:07 The Importance of Fun and Intimacy
45:11 Personal Growth and Future Plans
Psychotherapist & Author | STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man
Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/kristal-desantis
Speaker Website: www.strong.love
Therapy Website: www.austinstrongrbc.com
Instagram @atxtherapist

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