Beholden
Beholden
Podcast Description
Beholden is a podcast in which an amalgam of folks discuss their lives – their dreams, hopes, challenges. Listening to one another with attention and curiosity can disarm aggression and othering by helping us remember: We have a shared humanity, we are entangled with one another. We are beholden.
This podcast is hosted by Ignite Well-being (https://ignitewell-being.com/), located in the western suburbs of Chicago, IL.
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The podcast explores themes of shared humanity, vulnerability, and personal connection, with episodes focusing on topics such as disability advocacy, the LGBTQ+ experience, and the importance of kindness in the community. Examples include discussions with guests like Allaina, who talks about the intersections of disability and activism, and Beverly, who shares her journey as a trans individual and business owner.

Beholden is a podcast in which an amalgam of folks discuss their lives – their dreams, hopes, challenges. Listening to one another with attention and curiosity can disarm aggression and othering by helping us remember: We have a shared humanity, we are entangled with one another. We are beholden.
This podcast is hosted by Ignite Well-being (https://ignitewell-being.com/), located in the western suburbs of Chicago, IL.
Please note this episode discusses what culture would consider “challenging” topics, such as genitals, consent, and suicide while using direct, scientific, anatomical language. Similar discussions, similar language, similar topics are widely available online often without this warning; however, as a sign of respect and care, it is worth repeating – listener discretion is advised for the sensitive listener.
Brother K was born in Miami in 1947 and grew up in New Orleans. He studied journalism at the University of Illinois, where he earned his degree in 1969. He protested against circumcision at the California State Capital in 1980, a protest that the Associated Press and other media reported locally and across the nation. In 1986 he changed his name to Brother K in California Superior Court, an act of protest against his circumcision at birth. He formed Bloodstained Men in 2012 and has protested in cities from coast to coast.
Links to learn more about and connect with Brother K:
https://www.bloodstainedmen.com/ (with social media links at the bottom of this page)
https://www.bloodstainedmen.com/donate/ to support their work with donations
Papers mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/130/3/e756/30225/Male-Circumcision
Person mentioned:
https://www.anthropology-news.org/articles/leonard-b-glick/
Legal case mentioned:
2019 Michigan:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35296812/
Background on female circumcision/FGM in the US (note that Playboy endorsed it in 1973 on their cover):
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/history-of-female-circumcision-in.html
Related resources:
https://www.yourwholebaby.org/ An organization that offers education and support for parents
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ud-cTDfKd8 A lecture by Dr. Ryan McAllister
https://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/ Doctors Opposing Circumcision, an organization for professionals and parents
https://tlctugger.com/ For those curious about a foreskin restoration device
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/journal-of-biosocial-science/article/abs/ageincidence-and-prevalence-of-hiv-among-intact-and-circumcised-men-an-analysis-of-phia-surveys-in-southern-africa/CAA7E7BD5A9844F41C6B7CC3573B9E50 Study finds no difference in HIV status among circumcised vs intact men in South Africa
On religion and tradition:
https://intactamerica.org/ethical-debate-behind-circumcision/
On Judaism and circumcision:
https://intactamerica.org/rethinking-jewish-circumcision-brit-shalom-as-a-peaceful-intact-alternative/ (Jewish alternative to circumcision)
https://www.yourwholebaby.org/judaism?rq=jewish
On Islam and circumcision:
https://www.yourwholebaby.org/islam?rq=islam
https://applications.emro.who.int/dsaf/dsa54.pdf
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3516177/
On the history of circumcision in the US, early 20th century:
https://www.history.com/articles/dr-john-kellogg-cereal-wellness-wacky-sanitarium-treatments
Check out Brother K’s interview on Tosh 2.0:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyGwCcHLupE
For transcripts of this show, please email [email protected] with ‘Transcripts’ in the subject line and/or check your favorite podcast provider, as oftentimes they supply transcription services.
If you are interested in book recommendations related to topics discussed, including sexuality and consent, please see Allison’s bookshop on Bookshop.org Purchasing books through Bookshop offers greater support to authors as well as curators, such as Allison.
*Please note that the opinions and experiences of those interviewed in this podcast are not necessarily the opinions and experiences of the interviewer. One of the intents of this podcast is to interview a variety of people with a variety of experiences and opinions.*
If you are interested in participating in a future podcast, which involves thoughtful, caring, and connecting conversations to encourage proximity and a sense of interconnection, please email [email protected] with ‘Participate’ in the subject line.
To learn more about Ignite Well-being, in the suburbs of Chicago, and/or the host, Allison, please see their website, Patreon, Substack or Linktree. Listeners may schedule with Allison on Calendly. Deepest bow to the paid supporters on Patreon, who make this work more financially sustainable.
Sincere apologies for sound artifacts resulting from impaired WiFi connectivity from a major communications carrier and/or flaws within recording equipment.
Thank you to Pixabay and SergePavkinMusic for the song used in the podcast. And thank you to cloudconvert and Audacity for making podcasting more accessible.

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