In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, Michelle sits down with special education attorney Edwin Egelsee—the very person who represented her son during due process—to break down what actually happens when advocacy turns legal… and what parents need to know before they ever get there.

Edwin shares:

Why IEP meetings feel intimidating—and how to take your power back.
That room full of professionals? It doesn’t change the law. You are meant to be an active participant, not just someone signing paperwork.

The rights parents overlook (and schools won’t explain).
Those documents they hand you at the beginning of every IEP? Most parents never read them—and that’s exactly why they matter.

Red flags that something is off.
When your child is “a delight to have in class”… but not progressing? When everything becomes “functional”? These are the moments to pause and dig deeper.

The truth about progress—and why data matters more than words.
“Making progress” means nothing without proof. Ask how they measured it. Ask for the data. Always.

IEPs not being followed? Here’s what to actually do.
From requesting meetings to Prior Written Notice (PWN) and compliance complaints, Edwin breaks down your real options step-by-step.

IEEs (Independent Evaluations)—when and how to push back.
If the school’s evaluation misses something, you have the right to challenge it—but it has to be done strategically.

Due process… what it really looks like.
Not the TV version. The real process, the emotional toll, and why it’s something to prepare for—but not rush into.

What attorneys actually do for families.
It’s not just legal strategy. It’s guidance, clarity, and helping parents make decisions that truly serve their child.

The most important shift for parents: be proactive, not reactive.
Keep records. Document everything. Know your child’s baseline. Don’t wait until things fall apart.

Quote to sit with:

“You’re not just there to agree. You’re there to participate. This is your child’s future.”

Whether you’re just starting your IEP journey or already feeling like something isn’t right, this episode gives you the clarity, language, and confidence to advocate differently.

👤 About Edwin Egelsee
A seasoned special education attorney with OC Kids Law, Edwin has dedicated his career to helping families navigate the legal side of special education. He works closely with parents to ensure children receive the support, services, and education they are legally entitled to.

🔗 Connect with Edwin
Website: https://www.ockidslaw.com/attorney/edwin-egelsee/