Bez sits down with Daniel Laggner ahead of his workshop ”The Intelligence of Jealousy” at The Sauce on March 7th. Daniel opens with a disarming confession: he's teaching this topic because he's a deeply jealous person himself. And that honesty sets the tone for one of the most grounded, real conversations we've had on this podcast.

Daniel shares his origin story — 13 years married, eight of them monogamous, and a slow reckoning with the realization that polyamory wasn't just something he wanted, it was part of who he is. What followed was less a smooth transition and more an emotional crash course in self-discovery, one that led him deep into attachment theory, rejection wounds, and the humbling truth that nobody else is responsible for what comes up inside you.

What Daniel brings to this workshop is something hard to teach: he's been in the mud, he knows what it smells like, and he has a genuine gift for helping others map their own inner terrain. Expect a breakdown of what jealousy actually is, real tools for navigating it in relationship, and a visual map to take home with you.

If you've ever watched your partner walk out the door and had to sit alone with what came up next — this one's for you.