Trauma, Tea, and Tangents
Trauma, Tea, and Tangents
Podcast Description
For when therapy didn’t click...or just straight-up sucked.
Trauma, Tea, & Tangents is your weekly dose of unfiltered, unapologetic, and unexpectedly healing conversation. Hosted by Hannah Guy, LCSW—a trauma therapist who knows firsthand that healing isn’t linear, self-growth is messy, and sometimes you just need to laugh at the chaos—this podcast dives into all things trauma, nervous system, and the wild ride of being human.
Expect a blend of real talk, solid science, and compassionate hot takes, sprinkled with plenty of tangents (because who actually stays on track when they’re talking about trauma?). So grab your tea, get comfy, and let’s spill, sip, and sort through it all—one tangent at a time.
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Content Themes
The podcast explores themes surrounding trauma, nervous systems, and human experiences with a focus on topics such as dating challenges, relationship dynamics, and self-growth, featuring episodes like 'Dating Without Losing Your Mind' that unpack loneliness, reframing relationship experiences, and managing anxiety in dating scenarios.
For when therapy didn’t click…or just straight-up sucked.
Trauma, Tea, & Tangents is your weekly dose of unfiltered, unapologetic, and unexpectedly healing conversation. Hosted by Hannah Guy, LCSW—a trauma therapist who knows firsthand that healing isn’t linear, self-growth is messy, and sometimes you just need to laugh at the chaos—this podcast dives into all things trauma, nervous system, and the wild ride of being human.
Expect a blend of real talk, solid science, and compassionate hot takes, sprinkled with plenty of tangents (because who actually stays on track when they’re talking about trauma?). So grab your tea, get comfy, and let’s spill, sip, and sort through it all—one tangent at a time.
In this episode, therapist Hannah Guy breaks down why decision-making feels overwhelming for people with trauma histories and chronic anxiety. She explains how the nervous system confuses emotional discomfort with danger, why trauma creates pressure to make the “right” choice, and how fight/flight/fawn/freeze show up when we’re faced with everyday decisions.
Hannah shares trauma-informed tools to reduce decision paralysis, regulate the body, and approach choices with more clarity and less fear. You’ll learn grounding practices, reflective questions, and a new perspective on uncertainty: decisions are experiments, not life sentences.
Topics covered include trauma responses, attachment triggers, emotional regulation, nervous system healing, somatic strategies, and reframing high-stakes thinking in dating, relationships, and major life transitions.
If you struggle with overthinking or fear of making the wrong choice, this episode offers practical support and a gentle mindset shift.
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⏱️ Episode Chapters
00:03 — Welcome + Why This Topic Matters
Intro to the episode, why “the right decision” comes up so often in therapy and real life.
00:49 — The Pressure to Choose Correctly
How perfectionism and fear show up in everyday decision-making.
01:21 — A Personal Look at Decision Anxiety
Hannah shares how dating activates her own decision spirals.
03:21 — Trauma Makes Choices Feel Like Survival
Why your brain treats emotional danger like physical danger.
04:48 — How Trauma Turns Normal Decisions Into Threats
Coffee dates, texts, jobs—why everything feels high stakes.
06:42 — Fight/Flight/Fawn/Freeze in Decision-Making
How each trauma response shows up when you’re faced with choices.
09:04 — The Myth of the “Right” Decision
Why one perfect path doesn’t exist and how trauma convinces us otherwise.
11:15 — The Fantasy of Certainty
How our nervous system chases the illusion of safety through “right choices.”
12:52 — Decisions Are Experiments, Not Life Sentences
Reframing choices as learning instead of permanent outcomes.
13:07 — Regulating Before You Choose
Why your body—not logic—makes decisions feel impossible.
13:12 — Tools to Return to Regulation
Grounding, orienting, breathwork, and naming the scared parts.
15:38 — What Clarity Actually Feels Like
How clarity shows up once the nervous system calms down.
17:50 — Building Tolerance for Uncertainty
Expanding your window of tolerance around big and small decisions.
18:29 — You’re Not Meant to Be Regulated All the Time
Debunking the myth of constant calm.
19:07 — Mastery Is Tolerating Uncertainty
A powerful reframe for healing.
19:10 — Final Reflections + Journal Prompts
Questions to ask yourself when you feel pressure to choose.
20:57 — Closing + How to Connect with Hannah
Therapy offerings, contact details, and gratitude.
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