In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Marty Stevens-Heebner, an expert in Senior Move Management. They discuss the emotional complexities of moving for older adults, the role of Senior Move Managers, and the importance of effective communication with aging parents. Marty shares insights on the CLEANSE method for downsizing, the significance of estate planning conversations, and practical tips for organizing and navigating family dynamics during moves. The conversation emphasizes the need for resources like AgeWise Alliance to support families in the aging process and highlights the importance of creating a supportive environment for older adults during transitions.

Takeaways

• Moving is emotionally complex, especially for older adults.
• Senior Move Managers help navigate the logistics and emotions of moving.
•  The CLEANSE method provides a structured approach to downsizing.
• Starting the downsizing process early can reduce stress later.
• The older generations often have strong attachments to their belongings.
• Effective communication is key when discussing moves with aging parents.
• Estate planning conversations should be approached with sensitivity.
• Creating a supportive environment can ease the moving process.
• Understanding family dynamics is crucial during a move.
• Resources like AgeWise Alliance can help families find support.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Senior Move Management
01:16 Understanding the Emotional Impact of Moving
05:59 The Role of Senior Move Managers
09:44 Navigating Family Dynamics During Moves
11:13 Proactive vs. Reactive Moves
12:38 Empathy in Conversations About Aging
14:50 Estate Planning and Legacy Conversations
17:57 The Importance of Collaborative Decision-Making
21:42 Addressing Emotional Attachments to Belongings
23:45 The Value of Giveaway Parties
27:21 Final Thoughts on Moving and Downsizing
28:54 The Cleanse Concept: Organizing Your Space
32:49 Understanding the Downsizing Process
35:37 Timelines and Strategies for Moving
39:57 The Role of Move Managers
43:29 Introducing AgeWise Alliance
49:01 Embracing the Process of Aging

Resources 

• Clear Home Solutions: https://clearhomesolutions.com
• Book link for ”How to Move Your Parents (and still be on speaking terms)”: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9LLLFXM/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?
• Podcast link for ”How to Move Your Mom (and still be on speaking terms afterward”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-move-your-mom/id1576610243
• National Association of Senior & Specialty Move Managers (NASMM): https://www.nasmm.org/