Are You Getting Any? Basically, less than you think, it turns out explores the misconception between perceived and actual intimacy or sexual activity in contemporary society. The author highlights the surprising reality that despite living in a culture seemingly saturated with sexual imagery and openness, many individuals report experiencing far less intimacy than they imagine others are enjoying. Through an engaging blend of research, personal anecdotes, and insightful commentary, the narrative delves into the reasons behind declining intimacy, from increased digital isolation to societal pressure and unrealistic standards. Ultimately, the book encourages readers to reflect honestly on their expectations and desires, urging more authentic connections and open dialogue about intimacy to bridge the gap between perception and reality.