The Space Between.

The Space Between.
Podcast Description
Attorney & Author, Nicole Sodoma, the marriage-loving divorce attorney, leads informative and encouraging conversations, tips, and anecdotes on separation and divorce, relating her 25 years of experience in counseling and litigating thousands of divorce cases. She is the Founder and Managing Principal of Sodoma Law, the leading family law firm in the Carolinas.She has gained national recognition for her expertise in divorce, custody, and co-parenting, with her insights featured in major media outlets like TODAY, The Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, and The Washington Post.Nicole has been acknowledged as a top attorney and entrepreneur by several regional publications.Under her leadership, Sodoma Law has grown to over 50 employees across 7 office locations in two states.She is also a Certified Parenting Coordinator, Certified Collaborative Law Attorney, and an All American Speaker.Additionally, Nicole is the author of "PLEASE DON'T SAY YOU'RE SORRY," a book offering an empowering perspective on marriage, separation, and divorce, released on May 24, 2022.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
Primary themes include parenting schedules, custody trends, and practical tips for parents navigating divorce. Episodes cover topics such as the intricacies of building effective parenting plans, shifts towards shared parenting arrangements, and the role of technology in custody dynamics. Specific examples include discussions on handling holiday parenting time disputes and preparing for court when seeking custody orders.

Attorney & Author, Nicole Sodoma, the marriage-loving divorce attorney, leads informative and encouraging conversations, tips, and anecdotes on separation and divorce, relating her 25 years of experience in counseling and litigating thousands of divorce cases. She is the Founder and Managing Principal of Sodoma Law, the leading family law firm in the Carolinas.
She has gained national recognition for her expertise in divorce, custody, and co-parenting, with her insights featured in major media outlets like TODAY, The Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, and The Washington Post.
Nicole has been acknowledged as a top attorney and entrepreneur by several regional publications.
Under her leadership, Sodoma Law has grown to over 50 employees across 7 office locations in two states.
She is also a Certified Parenting Coordinator, Certified Collaborative Law Attorney, and an All American Speaker.
Additionally, Nicole is the author of “PLEASE DON’T SAY YOU’RE SORRY,” a book offering an empowering perspective on marriage, separation, and divorce, released on May 24, 2022.
Love and Dating: The Dilemma of a Divorce Lawyer
Guest: Chelsea E. Gajewski
In today’s episode, we’re joined by the incredible Chelsea Gajewski. I could easily spend the entire hour raving about her and her accomplishments in the family law world—but today, we’re switching gears and stepping into the dating arena.
People often wonder, does being surrounded by divorce give us an almost superhuman insight into relationships? Does it make us better at love, or just more cynical? Truthfully, I’ve seen it all— even in myself. And between the two of us, Chelsea and I have some pretty unique takes on dating and love.
Podcast Agenda
- Introduction
- A brief introduction to the guest and her background
- Introducing the dilemma
- Dating as a Divorce Attorney
- So, what do you do for work?
- Chelsea’s experience in dating
- Guy that told me stalked an 80 year old man because he thought he hit his car in a YMCA parking lot – CHECK PLEASE
- Last Friday, I lied and told a guy I accidentially left my dog outside so I had to go
- Hit on by clients…
- The Dating World (20 minutes)
- What works & what makes for a funny story
- Just going on the date
- Don’t text a lot before going
- Keep going – Dory
- Podcasts – Sabrina Zohar LOVE
- Breakups
- How does this career affect dating?
- Most common question I get asked – do you still want to get married? Will you get a prenuptial agreement? Are men intimidated by you and your career?
- What is the “biggest red flag” that we keep an eye out for
- What works & what makes for a funny story
- Hot Topics
- Popular topics online – Love is Blind new season, shows on Bravo- custody issues, support issues, etc.
- Chelsea’s take
- Dating coaches/concierge I AM CONSIDERING SPENDING THE MONEY
- Discussion on “The ick” – Nobody Wants This reference
- Listener Questions and Final Advice
- Final words of advice and reflection

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