An orgasm on top of an orgasm. A vibrator that flooded a hostel bathroom in Jerusalem.
The real reason cunnilingus was once illegal.
Tonight’s episode goes everywhere. I’m joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO and majority owner of Promescent, the sexual wellness brand behind the number one delay spray in the country, to talk about something we should be discussing a lot more: premature ejaculation and the orgasm gap between men and women. Jeff walks me through how he went from selling a semiconductor company to owning a sexual wellness brand doing 15 million a year, why most delay sprays leave you numb (and why Promescent doesn’t), and what actually causes PE beyond the physical.

From there we go deep into presence and anxiety in the bedroom, the anthropological history of why oral sex on women was once criminalized, why sex toys are still illegal in parts of the country, aging and libido after 40, the difference between masturbation and a true self-pleasure ritual, the erotic blueprint, and why taking the lead in the bedroom is one of the most generous things a man can do for his partner.
This is a full, honest, explicit conversation about sex, confidence and connection.
Listener discretion advised, 18+.
Learn more about Promescent at promescent.com
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What You’ll Learn

• What premature ejaculation actually is and how common it really is
• Why most delay sprays numb you and what makes Promescent’s formula different
• The real link between anxiety, presence and PE
• The anthropological history behind the shame around oral sex
• Why sex toys and BDSM gear are still criminalized in parts of the world
• Why low libido in your 40s is not actually about age
• The difference between masturbation and a self-pleasure ritual
• What the erotic blueprint is and how to use it
• Why watching a partner self-pleasure is a masterclass in what they actually want
• How to build real trust and communication around sex with a partner
• Why taking the lead in bed is an act of generosity, not dominance
• The difference between sex that nourishes you and sex that drains you

0:00 – Intro and welcome to Sex Ritual Radio, tonight’s topic: premature ejaculation and the orgasm gap, introducing Jeff Abraham
3:30 – Jeff’s story: selling his semiconductor company, meeting Dr. Ron Gilbert, becoming majority owner of Promescent
9:00 – What makes Promescent different: clinical trials, testing every product himself, growing the company from 80k to 15 million a year
16:00 – The problem with typical numbing sprays and how Promescent’s eutectic formula solves it 19:30 – Confidence, presence and the real link between anxiety and premature ejaculation
24:30 – Dating as a sex coach and a sex company owner, and building real trust with a partner 32:00 – The surprising history of why oral sex was once illegal, and where the shame still lives
36:00 – Sex toys, BDSM and why they’re still criminalized in parts of the world
40:00 – Aging and libido: why low sex drive in your 40s has nothing to do with age
45:00 – Self-pleasure ritual vs masturbation, the erotic blueprint, and watching a partner touch themselves
49:00 – Rose’s first vibrator story, the book Untrue, and the orgasm gap myth
53:00 – Taking the lead in the bedroom and why Promescent stays vanilla on purpose
57:00 – Nourishing sex vs draining sex, real intimacy, and Jeff’s closing advice
1:00:00 – Where to find Promescent and closing out the show

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