Divorce Diaries: Lessons From the Trenches
Divorce Diaries: Lessons From the Trenches
Podcast Description
Welcome to Divorce Diaries, where host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator brings you real stories, hard truths, and practical advice on navigating divorce and family law. Whether you're going through it, considering it, or just curious, this is your place for clarity, confidence, and resilience.
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The podcast covers a variety of themes related to divorce, including child custody, financial management, emotional healing, and co-parenting. Specific episodes include insights on understanding child custody arrangements, navigating financial clarity in divorce, and emotional support strategies for women dealing with divorce, emphasizing practical solutions like mediation and creative problem-solving.

Hosted by attorney and mediator Cary Jacobson, the Drama-Free Divorce Podcast brings you practical guidance, real conversations, and expert insights to help you navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and less conflict.
Each week, we break down the emotional, financial, and legal challenges of divorce and co-parenting, without the chaos. Through interviews with industry professionals, personal stories, and step-by-step strategies, you’ll learn how to protect your peace, communicate effectively, and make informed decisions that support your future.
Whether you’re considering divorce, in the middle of it, or rebuilding afterward, this podcast is your supportive guide to a calmer, more empowered path forward.
New episodes weekly. Tune in for tools, tips, and conversations that put your family’s well-being first.
Divorce is rarely just a legal matter — and that's especially true when spouses come from different countries, cultures, or legal systems. In this episode, Cary Jacobson is joined by Diana Romanov, a San Francisco family law attorney licensed in both California and Germany, to talk about what makes cross-border divorce so uniquely challenging.
Diana is a Certified Family Law Specialist, mediator, and founder of her own boutique practice, fluent in English, Russian, and German. A former prosecutor in Berlin, she brings a rare combination of international legal training and personal experience — including her own divorce — to the way she counsels clients today.
Cary and Diana cover the blind spots that catch multicultural couples off guard, how cultural attitudes toward marriage, parenting, and money can quietly escalate conflict, what's at stake when international custody or relocation is on the table, and why mediation is often the better-fit path for cross-cultural families. Diana also opens up about how her own divorce changed the way she shows up for clients, and offers her best advice for anyone feeling overwhelmed by a divorce that spans borders.
Connect with Diana Romanov at romanovlaw.com.
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