In this powerful and emotional episode, host Stacey Ray sits down with Darlene Lekowski for a deeply honest conversation about trauma, truth, and the lifelong journey of healing.

Darlene shares her experience of surviving sibling sexual trauma and abuse (SSTA), revealing how a childhood that appeared outwardly perfect concealed years of pain and silence. After decades of keeping her story hidden, a legal battle with her own brother became the turning point that led her to finally speak out.

Together, Stacey and Darlene explore the lasting impact of trauma, including PTSD, the complexities of healing, and the internal struggles survivors often carry. Their conversation highlights the critical role of support systems, the power of sisterhood, and the importance of self-forgiveness in reclaiming one’s life.

Through her memoir Shattering Silence, Darlene is now using her voice to help others confront their past, break free from shame, and step into a life of purpose, empowerment, and truth.

🎯 What You’ll Learn

• The hidden prevalence of sibling sexual trauma and why it’s rarely discussed

• How childhood trauma can shape behavior, relationships, and identity

• The long-term impact of PTSD—and why it often goes undiagnosed

• What true healing looks like (and why it’s an ongoing journey)

• The power of speaking your truth and breaking generational silence

• How support systems—especially female friendships—can be life-saving

• Practical ways to begin reclaiming your voice and personal power

👤 Guest Details

Darlene Lekowski is an author, speaker, business leader, and survivor who has transformed decades of pain into purpose, hope, and healing. 

After 50 years of silence, Darlene courageously spoke out about the abuse she endured, and ultimately won a civil lawsuit brought against her by her own brother. Today, she inspires audiences worldwide to reclaim their voice, power, and truth.

Her memoir:

👉 Shattering Silence: A Story of Survival, Justice, and the Power of Telling the Truth –  https://amzn.to/4tcCaSE

Connect with Darlene:

• 🌐 Website

• 📸 Instagram

• 💼 LinkedIn

• 📘 Facebook 

• 🎥 Book Trailer 

📅 Special Launch Offer: On April 2nd, the eBook is available for $0.99 (one day only). 

In fact, Darlene will be a featured speaker at the first in person conference in the U.S. devoted to SSTA sponsored by 5WAVES: “SSTA Conference – Breaking the Silence” on June 23rd at Long Island University in Brookville, NY.  Visit Conference | 5WAVES or Darlene’s website below under the Resources tab for details how to register, sponsor or become an advocate yourself to support such an important cause.  

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