This week we’re tearing apart one of personal finance’s most overused frameworks: the “financial order of operations.”

You’ve heard a version of it before—pay this, save that, sacrifice now, maybe retire someday. The problem? Most of those systems were built by people who either (a) never had real financial stress, or (b) have spent too long in the Dave Ramsey cinematic universe.

So, I rebuilt the order from scratch. And it actually works in the real world, whether you make $40,000 or $400,000.

Here’s what we cover:

1️⃣ Put your own oxygen mask on first.
Take care of yourself before your kids. Financial stability isn’t selfish—it’s responsible.

2️⃣ Obliterate credit card debt.
The “snowball method” is financial astrology. Attack the highest-interest balance first.

3️⃣ Get insurance.
If someone depends on your income, you need term life and long-term disability. No gimmicks.

4️⃣ Max out your Roth IRA.
It’s flexible, tax-free, and doubles as a stealth emergency fund.

5️⃣ Grab your 401(k) match.
A 50% employer match is the only free lunch on Wall Street.

6️⃣ Max out your HSA (if you can).
The triple tax advantage—deductible going in, tax-free growth, tax-free withdrawals—is unbeatable.

We’ll go deeper into emergency funds, taxable brokerage accounts, and smart debt strategies in Part 2 next week.

And a MASSIVE thank you to this episode's sponsor, Facet. If you are tired of paying more to an advisor simply because you make more, check out facet.com/tyler today to learn more. 

👉 PLUS: stick around until the end of the episode for a modern trick that helps you find the money to do all of this in under 20 minutes—without canceling Netflix or giving up your morning coffee.

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