The Masking Tapes
The Masking Tapes
Podcast Description
The Masking Tapes, hosted by Carolina Hidalgo-McCabe, dives into the rapidly shifting changes to gender norms, connections, and expectations. On this podcast, we listen to insights from everyday individuals, from fathers to sons, organizers to engineers, and those with the questions and some answers.
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Content Themes
The podcast focuses on themes such as grief, masculinity, and generational perspectives on manhood. Specific episodes include discussions on intentional grieving with Ryan Drysdale and the influence of compassion in masculinity with Oscar Romero. The content aims to unpack notions of male friendships and societal expectations across different generations.

The Masking Tapes, hosted by Carolina Hidalgo-McCabe, dives into the rapidly shifting changes to gender norms, connections, and expectations. On this podcast, we listen to insights from everyday individuals, from fathers to sons, organizers to engineers, and those with the questions and some answers.
On this episode of The Masking Tapes, Carolina is joined by Alex Vans, the founder of the Choros app and social club. Choros is the first app designed for guys to make friends. It builds real friendships through small groups, shared activities, and repeat hang outs.
This episode explores men's social connections, the role of community, and approaches to building friendships. It highlights the importance of transitioning from online to offline relationships.
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Host and Producer: Carolina Hidalgo-McCabe
Sponsor: Root For Good
Studio: Open Gov Hub
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01:36 Building Community: The Impact of Choros
02:11 The Challenges of Male Loneliness
07:01 Building the App: From Concept to Reality
09:28 User Experience: How Choros Works
12:16 The Role of Small Groups
14:35 The Friendship Recession: Understanding Loneliness
17:11 The Importance of Community and Structure
21:42 Building Deeper Connections Among Men
23:19 The Evolution of Male Friendships
25:23 The Fragility of Male Friendships
28:33 Friendship Dynamics
30:42 Navigating Vulnerability in Male Friendships
34:00 The Importance of Purposeful Gatherings
36:14 AI and the Future of Human Connection

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