The Gen Mess with Tess
The Gen Mess with Tess
Podcast Description
Are generational divides in the workplace and in life driving you crazy?The Gen Mess with Tess is here to help! Hosted by Tess Brigham—certified coach, licensed therapist, TEDx speaker, author, and mom to a Gen Zer—this podcast tackles the challenges and complexities of navigating life and work across multiple generations. From the unique struggles of Gen Z to the evolving perspectives of Millennials, Gen X, and Baby Boomers, Tess brings her expertise to the table, offering practical advice, expert insights, and real conversations to bridge the generational gap. Whether you're trying to communicate better with colleagues, understand your kids, or just get a clearer perspective on the "mess" of it all, The Gen Mess with Tess is your go-to resource for understanding how different generations think, work, and live. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Content Themes
The podcast delves into themes such as generational divides, burnout, and workplace communication. Examples include episodes discussing the unique challenges faced by Millennials and Gen Z regarding burnout, and practical strategies for improving generational communication in the workplace. The show also highlights societal expectations and personal perspectives, aiming to bridge the gap among Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z.

Are generational divides in the workplace and in life driving you crazy?
The Gen Mess with Tess is here to help! Hosted by Tess Brigham—certified coach, licensed therapist, TEDx speaker, author, and mom to a Gen Zer—this podcast tackles the challenges and complexities of navigating life and work across multiple generations. From the unique struggles of Gen Z to the evolving perspectives of Millennials, Gen X, and Baby Boomers, Tess brings her expertise to the table, offering practical advice, expert insights, and real conversations to bridge the generational gap. Whether you’re trying to communicate better with colleagues, understand your kids, or just get a clearer perspective on the “mess” of it all, The Gen Mess with Tess is your go-to resource for understanding how different generations think, work, and live.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What if the secret to surviving career chaos isn’t more hustle—but smarter engineering?
In this eye-opening episode of Gen Mess with Tess, host Tess Brigham sits down with systems architect and organizational consultant Belle Walker, who reveals why most companies—and leaders—are fighting the wrong fires, and how “engineering thinking” can fundamentally change how we navigate the messiest parts of work and life.
Belle shares her unusual journey from a family of engineers to stage management and humanities, and ultimately, to designing scalable, human-centered organizational systems. She explains how her approach blends classic problem-solving with deep empathy—translating abstract chaos into actionable clarity. Belle and Tess dig into why the real friction in organizations isn’t just between people, but between the functions and systems behind them, and how leaders often overlook the root causes of workplace tension.
Key highlights include:
- Why “cleaning up the mess” starts with understanding what problems you’re actually solving (and what resources and constraints you have).
- The surprising pitfalls of cutting entry-level jobs for AI—and why new talent is essential for adaptability.
- The energy “budget” concept: how organizations and individuals ignore energy management at their peril, especially in the return-to-office push.
- How generational expectations shape workplace difficulties—especially for Millennials and Gen Z, and why asking for what you need isn’t entitlement.
- The reality behind organizational change: why progress always takes longer than it looks in books, movies, or a single sentence.
Tune in to uncover actionable strategies for bridging generational gaps, managing energy, and architecting workplace solutions that really work—plus, hear Belle’s take on parenting, the myth of innate genius, and her foolproof method for separating noise from necessity.
Episode Overview:
00:00 – Podcast intro & meet Belle Walker: organizational chaos vs. blueprints
00:04 – Belle’s origin story: engineering family, humanities leanings, Google, and finding the love of “building systems”
00:10 – What is engineering thinking? Problem setup vs. pure math
00:15 – Real-life chaos: Maps, autonomous vehicles, and the importance of communication
00:20 – Managing today’s workplace noise & energy budgets—satellites, commutes, and training
00:28 – Generational perspectives: Gen Z, Millennials ask for what they want, impacts on work culture
00:34 – AI’s impact on organizational jobs—pitfalls and policy mistakes
00:40 – Why leaders miss functional friction (security vs. usability, quick fixes vs. lasting change)
00:44 – Change takes time—why it always feels faster in hindsight
00:46 – Elder Millennials, COVID parenting, work-life transformations
00:52 – How to actually “clean up” the generational mess: leverage strengths, address gaps, solve the right problems
00:56 – Belle’s plug for her Friction to Function newsletter
00:57 – Tess wraps up: the power of problem-solving, empathy, and learning to live in the “mess”
Ready to see your workplace (and maybe your whole life) through a new lens? Hit play and join Tess and Belle as they engineer the way out of the Gen Mess!
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