In this episode of ILLUMENATE, Chris sits down with Steve Reiter—broadcast veteran, podcast co-founder, and nonprofit founder—for a conversation that spans professional reinvention, devastating loss, and the quiet power of loving well. Steve, whose career has included leading production for internationally syndicated programs and helping launch what became the largest rollout in radio history, begins by sharing the three words that anchor his life: create, connect, and grow. Those words, shaped in part by the influence of his late wife Elizabeth, have become a compass guiding his work, relationships, and personal evolution.

Steve recounts the pivotal seasons that formed him—from moving to Colorado on a leap of faith to building a high-profile broadcasting career, only to be fired during a season of intense professional strain. But the heart of this episode centers on Elizabeth’s serious health issues, and the crucible moment when doctors warned she might not live to see their youngest son graduate. Determined to live without regret, Steve made a daily commitment to love her to the best of his ability. That resolve was tested in 2020, when Elizabeth was hospitalized during COVID-era visitor restrictions and ultimately died alone after weeks in isolation. Her death became the catalyst for Steve’s advocacy work to secure visitor rights for patients—so no family has to endure what his did.

The conversation turns tender as Steve reflects on single fatherhood, raising two teenage sons through grief, and redefining what healthy masculinity looks like today. He speaks candidly about apologizing to his boys when he falls short, modeling emotional growth, and the vulnerability of loving children who are “the last pieces of her left on this planet.” From grief counseling to anime nights and track meets, Steve shares how intentional presence—and humility—became his blueprint for fatherhood.

Finally, Chris and Steve explore faith, deconstruction, and community in a polarized culture. Steve describes refining his beliefs down to a simple core: love God, love yourself, and love others. He also shares the transformative impact of “Holy Smokes,” a global brotherhood built around friendship, conversation, and authenticity. At its core, this episode is about choosing connection over division, vulnerability over anger, and love over fear. Through heartbreak and rebuilding, Steve’s story is a testament to the power of listening, the necessity of brotherhood, and the lifelong work of becoming a better man.

ILLUMENATE is a podcast that tells the stories of men with good hearts, open minds, and a desire to make the world better for everyone — not just them and theirs. More info: https://illumenate.substack.com/about