You asked. She answers.

Carolyn is happily passing the mic to others with CANDIDLY – guiding you through a variety of very human cancer-related experiences, and tackling your questions with guests. But some of you sneakily found a way to send in questions for her. She – finally – got around to answering them. Enjoy this personal reflection guided by what you wanted to know.

For Carolyn, March 19th carries some weight. It's the day she was awoken in her hospital bed at Toronto General Hospital by a gentle nudge and the sight of the attending doctor and his posse of bright eyed bushy tailed residents staring down at her.

Before she could rub her eyes and sit upright, she heard was ”Blah bleh bleh bleh. Lymphoma Cancer”. She was 28 years old, in her prime, and it was this very moment when her very active life was abruptly halted. * Cue tire screeching sound effect *

12 years and a great deal of intentional efforts to process and reflect – she likes to take a moment every year on the day to acknowledge the event that ended up changing everything for her. This year, she added answering your Ask Me Anything (AMA) questions to her 03/19 rituals. Well….that was the plan, at least. Ooops!

(00:00)-An intro to this episode.

(00:36)-Things didn't go according to plan. March was…a month.

(01:39)-It's a remarkable thing.

(02:19)-The complex relationship with hospitals (and University Health Network – UHN).

(04:29)-Q: Have you processed everything?

(06:17)-Q: What's the craziest thing someone said?

(10:20)-Q: What did cancer change for you?

(15:37)-Q: What's your favourite CwC interview?

(19:15)-Q: What was the toughest part about being diagnosed with cancer?

(24:42)-Q: Is there anything you would you have done differently?

(29:22)-Q: How did you move on?

(32:30)-Q: How would you have liked to be supported by those closest to you other than the platitude of ”Get well soon” and ”You got this!”?

(36:45)-Q: How did sex and intimacy change for you?

(39:10)-Thank you & Wrap up.

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