Candidly with Carolyn
Candidly with Carolyn
Podcast Description
Candidly is your real-talk podcast that explores processing, living with and life after cancer - by your thrivership hypewoman and cancer slayer, Carolyn Van. Hang out with us as we have human conversations, include diverse perspectives, answer your questions and go there on topics that are not always discussed amongst friends, family, support networks and in the public discord from those who have been there and get it.
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The podcast delves into multiple themes related to cancer experiences, including emotional recovery, community support, and navigating life's challenges post-diagnosis. For instance, episodes focus on topics like the financial burdens of cancer, relationships altered by illness, and cultural aspects of healing, demonstrating a commitment to exploring the multifaceted nature of life after cancer.
All of us are affected by The Big C, or will be. CwC is a collection of candid conversations amongst those who have, as well as those contributing to better Cancer Futures – recorded for you to eavesdrop in on. Listeners can expect honest and in-the-moment real-talk, an array of human perspectives and exploration on topics that aren’t being discussed enough amongst friends, family members and in the public discord. Hosted by non-Hodgkin Lymphoma cancer survivor and your thrivership hypewoman, Carolyn V.
It isn't just about being grateful for ”surviving” cancer. We deserve more than this. It's about living quality lives. This includes thriving in our intimate relationships and sex lives, whether 25 or 70 years old.
Shifts in feelings, attitudes and abilities in sexuality and intimacy can be challenging. For some, sex lives can change dramatically after cancer.
When it comes to going there, there are few and far between who does it like Dr. Anne Katz. We are thrilled to introduce you to the award-winning author, registered nurse and counsellor.
Things get a bit spicy on this episode. So, if talking about sex, emotional connection, and masturbation makes you uncomfortable…listen in :). Let's get comfortable. Expect real stories, medical insights, and practical advice for navigating intimacy and sexuality after cancer.
Whether you're a researcher, practitioner, patient or survivor – we're excited for you to get to know the human behind her decades worth of internationally renowned works and wisdom on sexuality x cancer. We discuss vital intersections of healthcare, sexuality and communication, clinician-patient dialogue, and addressing intimacy issues in medical practice. We explore the complex emotional and physical aspects of intimacy, fertility, and relationships for young adult cancer survivors.
There are many things we can do to have healthy sex lives after cancer. So, let's get our groove back, shall we? And by back, this might mean – different. Not worse – but different. And in some cases, even better than it ever was.
Hit that play button. Meet Dr. Anne Katz!
(00:35)-An introduction
(04:20)-Why direct-to-patient matters
(06:20)-Practitioners must reflect
(07:11)-It all started with….drawing penises?
(09:35)-”It didn't feel like I was making a difference”
(12:36)-”Some clinicians are afraid to say 'sex life' ”
(14:45)-What patients need to know about sexuality and cancer
(16:56)-Sex Therapists VS. Sexual Medicine
(19:26)-Do nurses just do it better?
(20:42)-Who & When of bringing up the sexual side effects
(28:22)-”I've never told him that when he touches me there, it feels awful”
(30:42)-”The only thing that gets me through….is when he can't see the tears coming down my face”
(32:42)-Reaching a point of desperation?
(33:15)-”Just be glad you're alive”
(33:46)-He ran out of the room!
(36:46)-Moments that stay with Dr. Katz
(38:15)-The reality of Fertility Costs
(40:44)-I can't have children. Who is going to want me?
(41:17)-Q: Post-treatment libido & numbness
(48:22)-Spontaneous Desire, Accelerators & Breaks
(53:20)-Q: It's painful to watch her go through metastatic breast cancer. How could I bring sex up?
(54:17)-The Bell Ringing thing
(54:56)-Partners that leave
(56:08)-Q: My wig and makeup through physical intimacy
(1:02:34)-Q: When and how do I tell my dates?
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Learn more about Dr. Anne Katz here and her new book here.
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The views and opinions expressed do not represent the opinions of any podcast partners – but rather solely of the podcast author, or individuals participating in the podcast at the very moment of recording. We are all human and are constantly learning and evolving. What is shared in these conversations is for consideration only. This podcast must not be in place of official professional research, medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counselling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all. While those on the podcast might have lived and professional experiences with cancer, it is important to seek support from health professionals who can take the time to assess and analyze your specific circumstance.
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