The Future Is How
The Future Is How
Podcast Description
Welcome to The Future Is How: Explorations on Creating Your Better Tomorrow—a podcast that invites you to actively shape the future with practical insights and inspiration. Hosted by Dr. Frederik G. Pferdt, author of What's Next Is Now and first and former Chief Innovation Evangelist at Google, Frederik shares insights on building a future-ready mindstate, drawing from his experiences training the brightest minds at Google, Stanford, and beyond.
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Content Themes
The podcast explores a variety of themes focused on futurism, personal growth, and societal development, with episodes discussing topics like the importance of a futurist mindset, leveraging creativity for social impact, the role of relationships in happiness, and utilizing sleep science for enhanced productivity.
Welcome to The Future Is How: Explorations on Creating Your Better Tomorrow—a podcast that invites you to actively shape the future with practical insights and inspiration. Hosted by Dr. Frederik G. Pferdt, author of What’s Next Is Now and first and former Chief Innovation Evangelist at Google, Frederik shares insights on building a future-ready mindstate, drawing from his experiences training the brightest minds at Google, Stanford, and beyond.
Sonja Lyubomirsky is a Distinguished Professor of Psychology at UC Riverside and the author of The How of Happiness, The Myths of Happiness, and her new book How to Feel Loved (with Harry Reis). Her work has reached readers in 39 countries. In this conversation she shares the five mindsets that help us feel more loved, why being known matters more than being impressive, the vulnerability paradox, what her research says about control and the future, and her own daily practice of presence and radical curiosity.
This is a future built from within: less about better tools, more about the human capacity to connect. It is the Future-ready Mindstate turned toward the most personal question of all – how we love and let ourselves be loved.
Chapters
00:00 Cold open: when did someone last make you feel loved?
02:33 Welcome – and how Frederik and Sonja met in Copenhagen
03:27 Waking up happy and loved: morning anxiety and the “magic potion” of a friend
04:50 What Sonja was most wrong about early on: social comparison
06:23 Social media and the comparison trap
07:56 What to do about it: “Excessive self-focus is the door to all misery”
11:06 Being genuinely happy for others
12:09 From happiness to love: why feeling loved is the key
13:47 Loved vs. feeling loved, and why the answer is to be known
19:42 The vulnerability paradox (and JFK after the Bay of Pigs)
21:58 Our relationship with the future: expectations and losing a future
24:07 The sailing story: handing over the wheel and the power of control
27:11 Self-love: the open-heart mindset and treating yourself like a kind friend
29:21 Sonja’s own rituals: deep intimacy, presence, curiosity
31:20 On boredom and going beyond the words
33:49 The nature of love (Fast Future Round)
36:49 The smallest first move you can make today
39:06 NEXTletter outro
Sonja’s Website: https://sonjalyubomirsky.com/
Sonja’s New Book: https://howtofeelloved.com/
Sonja at UCR: https://profiles.ucr.edu/app/home/profile/sonja
Frederik
The Future Is How: https://www.frederikgpferdt.com/#podcast
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Awareness Test: https://awareness.frederikgpferdt.com/
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