Getting your ADHD kid into college is one thing.

But are they actually ready to manage college without you?

In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine: ADHD Parenting Podcast, Danielle Kelly sits down with Gerene Keesler, founder of Admissions Untangled and a college admissions expert with more than 30 years of experience, to talk about what parents of ADHD and neurodivergent teens need to know BEFORE college move-in day.

Because college readiness isn't just GPA, SAT scores, applications and acceptance letters.

For an ADHD student, it can also mean managing executive functioning, deadlines, organization, medication, accommodations, professors, laundry, sleep, money, appointments—and knowing when and how to ask for help.

Gerene brings both professional and personal experience to this conversation. After spending decades working in college admissions and higher education, she now specializes in helping neurodivergent students navigate the college admissions process, identify schools that fit their actual needs, develop self-advocacy skills, and prepare for greater independence.

We're talking about:

• How to know if your ADHD teen is actually ready for college
• Executive functioning skills students need before leaving home
• How ADHD accommodations change from high school to college
• What happens to an IEP or 504 Plan after high school
• Teaching ADHD teens to advocate for themselves
• How parents can gradually step back without removing support completely
• What to look for when choosing a college for an ADHD or neurodivergent student
• Why the ”best” college isn't necessarily the most prestigious one
• College admissions and application strategies for neurodivergent students
• When a traditional four-year college may NOT be the best next step
• Preparing ADHD teens for deadlines, organization and independence
• How parents can stop being their teenager's external frontal lobe before move-in day 😂

Gerene's message is one every ADHD parent needs to hear:

The goal isn't simply finding a college that will accept your child. It's finding a place where your child can actually thrive.

And preparing them doesn't mean making sure they never struggle.

It means helping them build the skills to recognize when they're struggling, advocate for what they need, access support—and recover when things inevitably go sideways.

If you're raising an ADHD middle schooler or high schooler and college feels simultaneously exciting and absolutely freaking terrifying, start here.

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Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.

Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.

Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
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Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.