The Dad Project
The Dad Project
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The Dad Project is dedicated to celebrating and uplifting single fathers of colour, sharing their powerful stories of perseverance, love, and hope. By highlighting their unique journeys and the challenges they overcome, the project seeks to dismantle stereotypes and emphasise the importance of men’s mental health and emotional well-being.
Through authentic storytelling, The Dad Project inspires understanding and compassion, fostering a community that values the strength and dedication of these fathers and encourages them to share their truths.
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The podcast explores themes of resilience, mental health, and parenting challenges, sharing powerful stories like Kiran Dhilan's battle for 50/50 custody of his autistic son and Aaron Dale's insights into co-parenting and personal growth.
Real stories. Brave voices.
The Dad Project is dedicated to celebrating and uplifting men, sharing their powerful stories of perseverance, love, and hope.
By highlighting their unique journeys and the challenges they overcome, the project seeks to dismantle stereotypes and emphasise the importance of men’s mental health and emotional well-being.
Through authentic storytelling, The Dad Project inspires understanding and compassion, fostering a community that values the strength and dedication of these fathers and encourages them to share their truths.
She runs one of the fastest-growing safety organisations in the world. She trains women, works with men, and has been in 120 countries. And on a packed train – she froze.
Amy Watson is the founder of HASSL, working to end male violence by changing culture from the ground up, not just giving women more things to do to stay safe.
We cover what men misunderstand about women's daily reality, why healing men is central to women's safety, male loneliness, heartbreak, rejection, and what confident men do differently. Naroop also share my own experience of being intimidated by a man on the Tube, something he’s rarely spoken about publicly.
WHAT WE COVER
→ The mental load women carry that most men never see
→ Why self-confidence in men directly reduces harmful behaviour
→ What men misunderstand about rejection and how to approach women respectfully
→ Why ”teaching women to stay safe” doesn't solve the problem
→ The connection between male loneliness, heartbreak and escalating behaviour
→ How social change actually happens
→ Why healing men benefits everyone, including women
(00:00:00) Introduction: Breaking the Silence on Women's Safety
(00:02:40) The Origin Story: From Frustration to Founding Hassl
(00:11:27) The Mental Load Women Carry Every Day
(00:15:16) Why Society Puts the Burden on Women Instead of Changing Male Behaviour
(00:24:46) The Train Incident: When Fear Takes Over
(00:30:47) A Shared Experience: When It Happened to Me
(00:34:54) Understanding Male Violence: What Makes Men Cross Boundaries
(00:35:48) The Scale of Change: Working Down From Awareness to Action
(00:52:46) Masculinity, Femininity, and Modern Relationships
(01:11:26) Male Loneliness and How to Approach Women Respectfully
(01:20:25) The Founder's Journey: Sacrifice, Death Threats, and Purpose
(01:26:57) Progress Over Perfection: Meeting People Where They Are
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QUESTIONS THIS VIDEO ANSWERS
What do men misunderstand about women's safety?
Most men don't see the constant mental calculations women make just to move through the world. This isn't occasional anxiety, it's a continuous background process. The gap isn't malice; women have normalised these fears so completely they rarely explain them to the men closest to them.
Why does healing men matter for women's safety?
Harmful behaviour toward women stems from unmet emotional needs and lack of self-worth. When men develop genuine confidence and emotional intelligence, the need for harmful validation disappears. Men's mental health and women's safety are not separate issues, they are the same issue.
What is the connection between male loneliness and harmful behaviour?
After a breakup, men often enter profound isolation. Without support networks or emotional language, some men spiral into behaviour that harms others. Men who cannot meet their own emotional needs will always be vulnerable to this.
How should men approach women without making them feel unsafe?
Read the situation. A woman alone at night is not the moment. Go where people expect to socialise. If she says no, move on with warmth, that signals real confidence. Rejection is rarely personal.
Why doesn't telling women to stay safe solve the problem?
It places the burden on the people already experiencing harm. The only meaningful solution is addressing behaviour at its source through culture change, male education, and bystander intervention.
How does low self-worth in men lead to harassment?
A man who lacks confidence seeks the brief sense of power that comes from crossing boundaries. A man with genuine self-respect does not need that reaction. The behaviour is a symptom of internal emptiness.
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