Better After Divorce
Better After Divorce
Podcast Description
Are you ready to go from the devastation of divorce to the reclamation of your entire life? Well, Queen, you’ve arrived at the perfect place! Welcome to Better After Divorce, the podcast dedicated to empowering women on their journey to reign with confidence, passion, and power in royal fashion.
This is where we embrace the up-level, the evolution, your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Whether you’re picking up the pieces or building an empire, this space is yours to rise, reign, and thrive. Time to claim your power and become the fierce unstoppable Queen you were born to be.
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast centers on themes of personal empowerment, self-reclamation, and financial literacy, with specific episodes addressing topics such as redefining self-worth, co-parenting dynamics, and building financial independence post-divorce. For example, episodes include discussions on moving beyond fear of divorce, investing, and navigating life's traumas.

Better After Divorce with Coach Ivy is for women who’ve rebuilt the career, the home, and the life, and still feel the dimmer switch. Not recovering. Becoming.
Each episode names the patterns that keep us choosing what hurts, in dating, in love, and in the life we’re building, and what to choose instead. Real stories, honest talk, and a little velvet-edged truth from someone who’s been exactly where you are.
I help women after divorce turn their light back on. Happily ever after starts with you.
You Already Know Why He Only Sees You On Weeknights
He only sees you on weeknights. He’s “not big on labels.” And somewhere underneath, you already know why.
What you tolerate in month one becomes the relationship. In this episode, I walk you through every guy who came through my dating funnel after divorce, including the one I never took out on a weekend, and the question that changed what I let in.
IN THIS EPISODE
→ Red Light, Green Light: two months in, weeknights only, and he’s “not big on labels”
→ The text-only guy, the still-married guy, the guy with eight kids, and the one I matched with twice
→ The four years I couldn’t even see men, and what that taught me about patterns
→ Why my relationships always felt like the scaffolding was still up
→ The two questions to ask before your next date
→ Why there’s no rejection, only mismatch
→ How your pattern runs game on you, not just on him
REFERENCE
→ Companion article: It Wasn’t the Men. It Was What I Kept Tolerating
→ Related episode: the dating game episode: You Were So Busy Being Chosen You Never Chose Him
JOIN ME LIVE
Choose, Don’t Chase: Stop Repeating the Heartbreak. Live on Zoom, Wednesday, October 28, 7 PM ET. Your $27 seat comes with a free plus-one. Bring the friend who shares your pattern.
FOUNDING MEMBERS
The extended segment: why I’m single on purpose, and what my Michelin three-star list looks like now. Subscribe to Better After Divorce on Substack.
IF THIS EPISODE RESONATED
Send it to the friend who keeps telling you he’s “fine.”
COACH IVY RESOURCES
→ 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe
→ 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough Session
→ 🚦 Send your Red Light Green Light scenario to [email protected] — subject line: RLGL
→ ⭐ Loving the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — I read every one, and yours might be featured on a future episode.
CONNECT WITH COACH IVY
Instagram: @coachivyvine
Facebook: CoachIvy
Substack: Better Dating After Divorce
Coach Ivy · #SelfEvolutionRevolution · Notice. Name. Choose Differently.

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