Better After Divorce
Better After Divorce
Podcast Description
Are you ready to go from the devastation of divorce to the reclamation of your entire life? Well, Queen, you’ve arrived at the perfect place! Welcome to Better After Divorce, the podcast dedicated to empowering women on their journey to reign with confidence, passion, and power in royal fashion.
This is where we embrace the up-level, the evolution, your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Whether you’re picking up the pieces or building an empire, this space is yours to rise, reign, and thrive. Time to claim your power and become the fierce unstoppable Queen you were born to be.
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Content Themes
The podcast centers on themes of personal empowerment, self-reclamation, and financial literacy, with specific episodes addressing topics such as redefining self-worth, co-parenting dynamics, and building financial independence post-divorce. For example, episodes include discussions on moving beyond fear of divorce, investing, and navigating life's traumas.
Are you ready to go from the devastation of divorce to the reclamation of your entire life? Well, Queen, you’ve arrived at the perfect place! Welcome to Better After Divorce, the podcast dedicated to empowering women on their journey to reign with confidence, passion, and power in royal fashion.
This is where we embrace the up-level, the evolution, your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Whether you’re picking up the pieces or building an empire, this space is yours to rise, reign, and thrive. Time to claim your power and become the fierce unstoppable Queen you were born to be.
Intimacy Cost More Now – And You Have More to Lose
You want the closeness, the connection. You even want the sex. So why does the thought of actually going out and getting it make you want to take a nap?
It’s not that desire left. It’s that the price went up.
This week we’re talking about what intimacy actually costs in midlife — and why your “I just can’t right now” isn’t a flaw. It’s accurate pricing.
Because intimacy isn’t sex. Intimacy is letting someone see the parts of you you’ve kept hidden since the divorce — and that bill doesn’t take Saturday nights anymore.
IN THIS EPISODE
→ Red light on “Keepin’ It Easy” — why easy for him is expensive for you
→ One comically unsexy Tuesday night — the nighttime ritual, the covers, and Hercules holding his ground
→ The three costs — the body, what you have to lose, and the past
→ The reframe — the price didn’t rise because you got difficult; the asset appreciated
→ Five women, same exposure — how each archetype meets intimacy, and the wall she can’t take down
→ What Samantha Jones understood that most of us miss
→ Coach Ivy’s truth — not dating right now, on purpose. Not a waiting room. Ownership.
REFERENCE
→ Read the companion article on Substack: Intimacy Costs More Now — and You Have More to Lose
→ Find your archetype — free Dating Pattern Guide: coachivy.involve.me/relationship-pattern
→ Book an Archetype Breakthrough Session: calendly.com/coachivyallen/the-archetype-breakthrough-session
→ Write me — I answer every email personally: [email protected]
IF THIS EPISODE RESONATED
Send it to the woman who keeps apologizing for not having the energy to date. She’s not too tired for love — she’s too rich to overpay. She needs to hear this.
RESOURCES MENTIONED
→Find Your Pattern — Download the Dating Pattern Guide
→Want to go deeper — Schedule Your Pattern Breakthrough Sesson
→ Send your Red Light Green Light scenario to: [email protected] — subject line: RLGL
→ Loving the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — I read every one, and yours might be featured on a future episode.
CONNECT WITH COACH IVY
Instagram: @coachivyallen
Facebook: CoachIvy
Substack: Better Dating After Divorce
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