Is fear actually lying to you — or is it the most honest thing your brain does? And what if the goal was never to become fearless at all?

In this special panel episode of the Mindform Podcast, host Frank Lawton brings together four voices who’ve spent years studying fear from completely different angles: Nick Day, creator of The Fear Equation; Dr. Jill Stoddard, TEDx speaker, psychologist, and author of Be Mighty and Imposter No More; Ryan Bush, bestselling author of Designing the Mind and founder of Mindform; and Michael MaeRhys, a therapist who came to the profession in his 50s, working from a gestalt and interpersonal neurobiology lens with a focus on anxiety.

Across the conversation, a surprising consensus emerges — and one real disagreement. The group agrees fear is not the enemy: it’s a signal, often relational, pointing toward what actually matters. But when Nick openly pushes back on the goal of becoming “fearless,” the conversation gets its sharpest edge.

• Why the popular idea of “building confidence before you act” is a trap
• The difference between bravery (the hero’s move) and real courage (the values-aligned one)
• Michael’s story of finding the courage to speak up as a child, and what it taught him about fear as relational
• Jill’s account of family estrangement after speaking out about abuse — and why she’s doing it anyway
• The etymology twist: how the word “fear” is secretly rooted in the word “to try”
• Nick’s on-air disagreement — is fearlessness even a worthy goal?—-more—-

Find the panel:
Nick Day — feartobold.com/fear-equation
Jill Stoddard — jillstoddard.com
Ryan Bush — mindform.io

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