Ourselves Podcast
Ourselves Podcast
Podcast Description
OURSELVES is the world’s first open-source podcast that dives deep into the worlds of creativity, culture, & personal growth. Hosted by film & music video director Arrad, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with visionary artists, trailblazing entrepreneurs, and thought leaders shaping the future. From behind-the-scenes stories of groundbreaking projects to candid discussions about mental health, reinvention, and navigating the creative industry, OURSELVES is your space to feel inspired, challenged, and connected.
Made by ourselves, for ourselves.
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The podcast covers a diverse range of topics such as creativity, culture, personal growth, and mental health. Specific episodes delve into themes like navigating fame in the music industry with artists like RealestK, tackling anxiety within the creative community, and resilience stories featuring actors like Daniel Moncada. Focus areas include personal challenges faced by creatives, behind-the-scenes industry insights, and strategies for maintaining mental well-being.

OURSELVES is the world’s first open-source podcast that dives deep into the worlds of creativity, culture, & personal growth. Hosted by film & music video director Arrad, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with visionary artists, trailblazing entrepreneurs, and thought leaders shaping the future. From behind-the-scenes stories of groundbreaking projects to candid discussions about mental health, reinvention, and navigating the creative industry, OURSELVES is your space to feel inspired, challenged, and connected.
Made by ourselves, for ourselves.
Labels used to have a marketing plan for their artists. Now the marketing plan is the artist: post about the album five times a day for six months, then post the presale link again.
Jesse Boykins III writes the songs, then directs the worlds they live in. Five albums of his own, a Grammy nomination for co-writing Steve Lacy’s “Playground”, an executive producer credit on Jessie J’s album, and he’s been working with Steve Lacy since Steve was 15.
In this conversation I break down with Jesse why big artists can’t sell tickets anymore and why it’s not their fault, what artist development actually means and the five album test that proves it, why Steve Lacy hasn’t dropped in three years, why Frank Ocean probably has a hundred albums we’ll never hear, and why so many brilliant creatives never finish anything. We also get into the director side. Why the performance beats the perfect shot, why he’ll throw out the shot list on set, what he does when a client says no, and the movie that made him want to make movies.
If you’re an artist, director or creative trying to build something that lasts, this one is for you.
0:00 Cold Open
2:28 What He Taught Leon Thomas About World Building
4:50 Treat Your Artistry Like A Brand
6:23 Niche Fan Bases vs Viral Hits
7:15 The Difference Is Vision
8:07 Why Chasing A Hit Is Fleeting
9:11 Real Vision vs Pinterest References
10:35 No Story, Just References
11:22 “I’m Too Boring” Is Your Best Material
12:38 A Photographer Since 14 Who Never Said So
13:41 Directing 13 Years Before Calling Himself A Director
14:27 One Project Doesn’t Make You A Director
15:24 What Made Anthony Mandler Different
16:52 I Don’t Care If A Song Sounds Good
18:15 Nobody Told You This Wasn’t Good Enough
19:05 The Perfect Shot vs The Real Performance
21:31 DPs Are All The Same Archetype
22:39 Directing Is A Grocery List
23:16 Forget The Shot List
24:51 “Everything Today Is Meant To Be This Way”
26:02 Why He Runs A Feel Good Set
30:36 What Great Artists Have In Common
31:12 Jessie J’s Hidden Talent
31:50 Steve Lacy Was Making Beats On His Phone At 15
33:48 Is Artist Development Dead?
34:34 The 5 Album Test
35:27 Labels Don’t Ask Questions
36:31 Sales Is Asking The Right Questions
37:27 Ask An Artist Questions Like A First Date
40:32 Why Big Artists Can’t Sell Tickets
42:50 Bring Back Street Teams
44:07 You Can’t Blame The Artist
44:58 College Tours And Cruise Ships
46:11 Spend Half The Budget On Marketing
47:59 Who He Makes Films For
49:10 Why His Treatments Take So Long
52:11 When To Trust Your Gut
54:27 Taste vs Vision
55:16 Why Brilliant Creatives Never Finish
56:38 Russ Says Just Put It Out
59:32 Some Artists Hold Music Sacred
1:00:00 Why Steve Lacy Hasn’t Dropped In 3 Years
1:00:35 Frank Ocean Probably Has 100 Albums
1:01:08 Does Putting Out Too Much Hurt You?
1:03:48 Commercial Directors Want To Do Music Videos
1:04:18 When The Client Says No: Director’s Cut
1:08:55 How To Actually Add Value
1:10:51 Swap The First And Second Verse
1:12:26 What’s Next: “I’m A Creator”
1:16:31 “I Met My Wife At Your Show”
1:17:16 The Passion Project We Keep Putting Off
1:18:48 Why We Put Obstacles In Front Of The Hero Story
1:20:43 Card Pull: What He’s Always Wanted To Try
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