On the 13 Beginnings Podcast, Courtney interviews Aunt Paulette, the ninth of 13 siblings, as she reflects on growing up in a large, close-knit family and the values that shaped her life. She shares the story of meeting and marrying her husband, Troy—who served a mission in San Diego—and their life together raising four children, now living in Florida and Utah with their growing families.

Paulette fondly remembers life on the family farm, describing her mother, Bonnie, as a tireless, loving provider and her father, Ben, as a hardworking preacher who sacrificed for his family. She shares meaningful and humorous childhood memories filled with creativity, hard work, and strong family connection. Sibling tributes highlight Paulette’s tender heart, kindness, and her gift for making others feel seen and loved.

The heart of the episode centers on Paulette’s message: choosing not to judge. She teaches that judgment leaves little room for love, encourages compassion over criticism, and emphasizes trusting the Lord to see the full picture. The episode closes with expressions of love for family and gratitude for the relationships that matter most.