How to Have a Bloody Good Conversation
How to Have a Bloody Good Conversation
Podcast Description
Have we forgotten how to talk to each other? We communicate non-stop online, but the more we type the less we talk, and then we get out of the habit of having a bloody good conversation.Yet conversations build important connections. They can double a company’s turnover, forge lasting relationships, land that dream job, so how can we make sure every conversation ends well for everyone? Join two conversationalists, journalist and broadcaster Mai Davies and communications consultant Sarah Wright, as they explore the ins and outs of having a bloody good conversation. It might just change your life!
Podcast Insights
Content Themes
The podcast explores themes around the art of conversation, focusing on barriers to effective communication, leadership communication, and the role of vulnerability and active listening in fostering connections. Specific episodes address topics such as improving conversational skills in professional environments, addressing generational differences in communication styles, and navigating difficult interactions during the holiday season.
If you want to succeed in life, you have to master the art of conversation.
From dating to doing business, negotiating a pay rise to haggling over bedtimes, conversations make our world go round.
The thing is, most of us were never taught how to have them well.
We all learned to talk as toddlers, but mastering conversation that’s a different skill entirely, and let’s be honest, most of us are winging it.
So if you’ve ever found yourself tongue-tied, lost for words, or dodging a difficult chat, this podcast is for you.
Join two curious conversationalists, psychologist and mindset coach Dr Victoria Stakelum and communications consultant Sarah Wright, as we explore how to have a bloody good conversation. It might just change your life.
What if the most important conversation you’ll ever have isn’t with your boss, your partner, or your best friend but with yourself?
In this episode, Sarah Wright and Dr. Victoria Stakelum explore the inner dialogue that shapes everything: your confidence, your decisions, your relationships, and your ability to have difficult conversations.
We unpack where your inner critic comes from (spoiler: it was formed in childhood, and it thinks it’s helping), how to tell the difference between fear-based chatter and genuine gut instinct, and what to do when that voice in your head is holding you back.
You’ll learn why trying to silence your inner critic backfires, what you can do so it loses its grip, and the ABC technique for regulating yourself in the moment. Plus: the surprising power of giving your inner critic a name, why affirmations can make things worse if you don’t believe them, and how journaling with your non-dominant hand might unlock answers your conscious mind can’t reach.
If you’ve ever beaten yourself up after a meeting, talked yourself out of something you wanted, or wondered why you can’t just think more positively—this one’s for you.
Topics covered:
- What a “conversation with yourself” really is and why we’re all doing it (whether we notice it or not).
- Why the tone and volume of your self-talk matters for wellbeing and relationships.
- How to spot when you’re being hijacked in a conversation (mental and physical signs).
- A simple regulation framework you can use anywhere: Awareness → Breath → Choice.
- How to work with (not against) your inner critic, including naming it and understanding what it’s trying to do for you.
- Why “positive affirmations” can backfire and how to do realism-based positivity instead.
- Practical ways to externalise your thoughts: journaling, speaking out loud, and prompts that take you deeper.
Guest Information
- Dr. Victoria Stakelum – Psychologist & Mindset Coach
- Sarah Wright – Communications & Creative Strategist
- Victoria’s Oracle Cards: Available at thesuccesssmith.com under Launchpad
Contact / listener questions
Have a conversational conundrum or a question sparked by this episode? Email the show at [email protected] .
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