Beyond Compatibility

Beyond Compatibility
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Beyond Compatibility explores what truly makes relationships work in today’s world. Hosted by Lucas, a tech entrepreneur with a passion for human connection, the podcast dives into topics like modern dating, the loneliness epidemic, and the role of technology in relationships. With expert guests from psychology, relationship coaching, and tech, we uncover practical insights on building meaningful, lasting connections in an increasingly complex world.
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The podcast delves into themes such as modern dating, the loneliness epidemic, emotional intelligence, and the influence of technology on relationships. Episodes include discussions like the insights from matchmakers on relationship readiness and strategies for building lasting connections amidst societal challenges.

Beyond Compatibility explores what truly makes relationships work in today’s world. Hosted by Lucas, a tech entrepreneur with a passion for human connection, the podcast dives into topics like modern dating, the loneliness epidemic, and the role of technology in relationships. With expert guests from psychology, relationship coaching, and tech, we uncover practical insights on building meaningful, lasting connections in an increasingly complex world.
In this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Victoria Brito, the founder of FitMeet Berlin—a fitness and social club helping singles in Berlin connect through shared movement, games, and low-pressure events. Victoria shares her own experience dating in Berlin for five years, the dating fatigue that inspired her to take action, and how she built a thriving community of over 3,000 members.
💡 About Victoria:Originally from Brazil and raised in the US, Victoria blends warmth, humor, and strategic thinking to create real-world spaces where singles can meet intentionally—without the stress of dating apps. Through running events, volleyball, yoga, and even themed games, she's changing the dating narrative, one meetup at a time.
We dive into:
📍 Why Victoria quit the apps and how offline dating changed her perspective
📍 The magic of shared physical activity—what running reveals about someone's character
📍 How FitMeet uses black clothing as a subtle signal of availability
📍 The importance of vibe-checks over high-pressure speed dating
📍 How the community grew from a WhatsApp message to thousands of members
📍 Navigating dating with honesty and respect: Victoria’s golden rules for showing up
📍 Dating fatigue, love bombing, and Berlin’s unique challenges
📍 The future of FitMeet: from Berlin to a multinational network
Whether you’re tired of swiping or just want a new way to meet kind, like-minded people, this episode is packed with laughs, stories, and real talk about building connection in a disconnected world.
🎧 Tune in and let’s dive in!
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00:00 Quick Promo
02:00 Meet Victoria Brito!
04:00 What Exactly Is FitMeet?
10:24 From Dating Fatigue to Founding a Movement
12:16 Why Dating in Big Cities Feels So Broken
15:08 How a Running Club Turned Into a Dating Revolution
21:41 Real Love Stories from FitMeet
23:09 Honest Dating Tips for Men
28:42 The Wild Story of How Victoria Met Her Boyfriend
34:02 Dating Advice for Women: Be Open, Be Kind
36:15 The Future of FitMeet & Victoria’s Vision
43:45 The Rise of Offline Dating & What’s Changing
44:44 Berlin Dating Horror Stories (You’ll Relate)
51:07 Men vs. Women: Building Understanding, Not Walls
54:16 Final Thoughts & How to Connect with Victoria

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